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Hello, i live in Apple Valley and having surgery @ Fairview Southdale as well with Dr. Benn on 4/18/16. Im super excited and scared. Haven't beed able to sleep the last few nights. Ive never had surgery and the only time in a hospital when i had my son. Have my pre op on the 4th . And going to Fairview for the pre op class on the 7th. Im so excited to start this journey, to loose all this weight. I have been big all my life even though i never had health issues and have been active in many different sports, but i think that just looking at food makes me gain 20 lb. i dont know what i look like under 250lb. The diet restrictions are super scary thought. Mngreeneyes- what did u think of Fairview Southdale?

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I have been super impressed with Fairview Southdale and their team. I had Dr. Pierce for my surgeon. I loved him. He was the surgeon who did my initial information meeting and I was so impressed with him, I never considered either of the other surgeons. I've heard great things about both of the others as well.

I also had never had surgery before my surgery, except the stitches I got when I took a header into a metal door frame at the age of about 4. The only issue I had with surgery was that they tried to make it less painful to put in my line/iv and kept giving me pain killer and it kept causing my veins to collapse in that area! It took 7 tries to get one in for surgery and that one had problems post surgery so they had to try again. The 8th one lasted the rest of my stay. :)

Have you been to any of the support group meetings? I highly recommend them. Both the ones I go to are amazing groups of people who genuinely want to help. We don't meet until the 20th this month, but if you can make it to Fairview Riverside next Wednesday from 6:30 to 8, we would love to answer any of your questions and alleviate any fears we can. In fact, this month's speaker is one of the U surgeons talking about complications after surgery. That alone might help some of your concerns.

My attitude going in to the surgery was that I wanted to know the worst, but expect the best. I had a really smooth recovery so the best was what happened, but I am also glad I knew the worst because I had figured out how I wanted to react to each of the complications as they happened. Once I came up with a plan of sorts for complications, I knew I could deal with whatever came my way.

Best wishes, and feel free to private message me if you have any questions or just want to vent or whatever.

pam

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