babysteps 48 Posted July 17, 2012 Keep your chin up no man will make you a strong woman you have to do that your self. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 17, 2012 Keep your chin up no man will make you a strong woman you have to do that your self. Of course Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
babysteps 48 Posted July 17, 2012 If you need a ear to pull on feel free to yell over at me iv been down this long ugly road before 1 berniec reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 17, 2012 If you need a ear to pull on feel free to yell over at me iv been down this long ugly road before Thanks I know what I want now. I want to be mentally prepare. It's not easy after over 16 years to be depended on a man to take care of you even if you work also. I don't talk to my mom so I'm not going to beg her to take me in. I'm not going to a friends house. That's not my style. I need my bills paid & I need my own money to get what I need. 1 berniec reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
alisa345 36 Posted July 17, 2012 Luv ya!! it's hard I know cuz ive been there but when ur ready and have had enough u will be ready to go, just stay strong and remember u an ur kids are precious Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 17, 2012 Luv ya!! it's hard I know cuz ive been there but when ur ready and have had enough u will be ready to go' date=' just stay strong and remember u an ur kids are precious[/quote'] Thank you yes my kids are number 1 that's why I'm not moving yet to get into a worst place or neighbor. I have to suck it up for a while. Before I make the final decision I will however attempt to convence hubby to get counseling. I will never ever tell him I saved money to move. If he feels- thinks he's too macho to go then I'm just leaving, I'm not wasting more of my life with someone that won't change his ways. 1 alisa345 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 17, 2012 I wanna strangle this man... I made some sramble eggs with salami, toast with butter, bacon & cafe. He leaves the house knowing Breakfast is on the table. He comes back looking at the time saying is it 2pm in other words I give him Breakfast at that time. When i make breakfast it's between 9am-11am It's like a night mare. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PaulB 346 Posted July 17, 2012 Mamiof3kids I looks at it this way Some people are not worth the jail time. My wife's ex was just like your husban he would push a woman around but wouldn't push me. Had to ask him one day to his face if that made him feel like a big man. I can't tell you what he told me to go do to myself. So I ask him to see if he was man enough to push me. He couldn't get away from me fast enough. 13 years ago he was coming out of the bar that he hangs out in at closing time and somebody beat the crap out of him( not me) I was 600 miles away and could prove ithis girl friend says he hasn't hit her since then. Be Strong Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 17, 2012 Mamiof3kids I looks at it this way Some people are not worth the jail time. My wife's ex was just like your husban he would push a woman around but wouldn't push me. Had to ask him one day to his face if that made him feel like a big man. I can't tell you what he told me to go do to myself. So I ask him to see if he was man enough to push me. He couldn't get away from me fast enough. 13 years ago he was coming out of the bar that he hangs out in at closing time and somebody beat the crap out of him( not me) I was 600 miles away and could prove ithis girl friend says he hasn't hit her since then. Be Strong Thanks The guy sure got what he deserve. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 21, 2012 Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved. 2 berniec and Bert_n_ernie reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jenneliza 257 Posted July 21, 2012 Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved. I'm so happy for you! I hope things will work out for you - just remember it will be a process. Best of luck and we are here for you xo Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
berniec 166 Posted July 21, 2012 Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved. I'm happy for you too. At the end of the day you can say you tried. Best wishes to you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 21, 2012 Thanks I'm still saving secret money just incase. 2 Bert_n_ernie and berniec reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PaulB 346 Posted July 22, 2012 Great that's a step in the right direction for him. Shows he may care after all. Good luck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nish 102 Posted July 22, 2012 That's good to hear, on both fronts saving money ( just in case ) and he is going. Hope everything works how it is suppose to. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites