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I sure will soom as my dad comes back from the super bowl n if they can't hlp I do have a friend who said he would b there for me but I honestly don't want any man watchin my kids n my home unless its their dad

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How exciting' date=' good luck to you everything will be for god willing. I still can't believe that I'm just a day away from my surgery. The hospital called me yesterday to confirm the surgery time and as I'm speaking to the nurse I had to pinch myself to believe that this is so real. This change that will come to my life I know it's a lot of work and dedication but I'm ready for it.

Surgery date Monday Feb4, 2013 that will be a date that I will never forget. :) good luck to you again. And hope to stay in touch, this forum have really helped me a lot and have answer many of my questions. Thanks to all of you guys for sharing your experiences with all of us here. :)[/quote']

Good luck tomorrow Iwill pray for your speedy recovery.

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No not yet not sure if he is back from super bowl but I did talk to my mom yesterday I told her I was havin surgery for gallstones because last yr when I was telling her I was considering the bypass surgery she talked me out of it saying u don't need it UR not that big n I can just back up from the table etc. Well I lied bout the kind of surgery this go round n she did tell me she'd b there to help me with the kids so I'm very much happy n excited. Yesterday my job approved my request for Advanced sick lve n the surgeons office contacted me that my surgery time has moved up from 1030 to 830am on March 1. My bag is already packed n I packed my kids back up already too. I ordered more Celebrate calicum chews n the ens Protein mix yesterday as we'll. Just got to buy some chicken broth n sugar free Jello to start my week of liquids on the 22nd

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No not yet not sure if he is back from super bowl but I did talk to my mom yesterday I told her I was havin surgery for gallstones because last yr when I was telling her I was considering the bypass surgery she talked me out of it saying u don't need it UR not that big n I can just back up from the table etc. Well I lied bout the kind of surgery this go round n she did tell me she'd b there to help me with the kids so I'm very much happy n excited. Yesterday my job approved my request for Advanced sick lve n the surgeons office contacted me that my surgery time has moved up from 1030 to 830am on March 1. My bag is already packed n I packed my kids back up already too. I ordered more Celebrate calicum chews n the ens Protein mix yesterday as we'll. Just got to buy some chicken broth n sugar free Jello to start my week of liquids on the 22nd

Don't forget sugar free Popsicles ( I want to use them as dessert..LOL---whatEver works. Glad it worked out! Hopefully they won't visit u in Hosp or if u think they are gonna show tell your nurse to not discuss any aspect of your was needs/journey w/ them...

God bless and good luck!

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I'm really hopin she don't visit me n the hospital since she will have my kids hopefully she won't have time since I have a Teenager n a 6yr old lol

Popsicles right I need to get them too Thnks. Already told my homegirl who has had the surgery she goim with me to make sure I tell nurse to not give any info out about me who calls hopefully they will respect my privacy

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I'm really hopin she don't visit me n the hospital since she will have my kids hopefully she won't have time since I have a Teenager n a 6yr old lol

Popsicles right I need to get them too Thnks. Already told my homegirl who has had the surgery she goim with me to make sure I tell nurse to not give any info out about me who calls hopefully they will respect my privacy

They have to, it's HIPPA, law. You can specifically say they may only speak to you and put a notice on your chart and on their patient board that's usually by nurses station. I have similar stipulations and two people named as my healthcare agents for advance directive purposes, in case of emergency issues ( hubby & mom).

Just state it and repeat it. When you show you you have knowledge and are serious they will take notice ( nurses and docs), whereas sometimes they ignore people.

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