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So I'm 2 1/2 weeks out (6/11) and my husband asked if we can have sex yet. I'm from the old school and believe in keeping my man satisfied. So we tried it missionary and I was fine but he was being too gentle and kept asking are you OK? Does it hurt? I was like that's the problem it doesn't hurt come on already I'm fine. And just when it was getting good my four year old wakes up and walks in my room! She stared for a min then runs out screaming and crying "daddy's hurting mommy he's gonna kill her surgery " needless to say we didn't finish! I'm happy to know I'm getting better tho a few days ago I couldn't fathom the thought of laying flat let alone having sex. Sorry if this was tmi but I had to share with someone and who better than my rny family

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OMG. Poor you! Poor hubby! And poor kid. But most have walked in on parents and we survived

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Lol!!! It will be a few questions for a couple of days, but what can u remember when you were 2? I can't even think about sex I'm so queasy all the time. I also want to get a great form of birth control since I heard pills are not as effective.

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LMFAO poor kid. Knock on woods! I never been walked on yet. I never walked in on my parents.

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Don't worry about it. I had sex the same week I came out the hospital.

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My oldest is 18 I also have a 13yr old 8yr old as well as the 4yr old and this is the first time one of them has walked in on us. I've never walked in on my parents. She hasn't said anything about it since nor have I, probably not the best thing but oh well I don't know what to say

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My oldest is 18 I also have a 13yr old 8yr old as well as the 4yr old and this is the first time one of them has walked in on us. I've never walked in on my parents. She hasn't said anything about it since nor have I' date=' probably not the best thing but oh well I don't know what to say[/quote']

Kids don't know but I would suggest putting a lock on the door.

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Funny thing is we do have a lock and my husband thought he locked it. It was really early and my kids always sleep in til at least 10 except for that morning of course.

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Funny thing is we do have a lock and my husband thought he locked it. It was really early and my kids always sleep in til at least 10 except for that morning of course.

Oh ok oops

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