Weird Or Not Weird

[Yolyann 56]

Not weird at all.... I ask you "why do you even have to tell anyone?" I told my family and very close friends and my very close work friends but the rest of the people in my life I owe no explination what so ever' date=' it your business and you tell who you want to tell. When people say "you lost weight" or "you look good - how much weight have you lost"? I say thanks and I'm on a diet & exercising. Thats it - please don't feel obligated to tell anyone anything. Surgery is not the easy way out as all of us post-op people know !!![/quote']

Well put, thank you

[missy 6]

Do when your ready girl!!!i am same as you I do t wish to deal with. Negative at this very moment in time!!! Once it's done say what you like be easier to deal with, this is all a hard enough choice as it is adding more stress is not needed!!! Here to support you!! X

[joanna 21]

Missy we have the same day the 22 it is comeing quick. I am with you idk what people say or think I have told everyone who asks me what I M doing its good to talk about it some people say oh why r u doing that u r not that big that makes me soooooooo mad when they say that they have no ideal I can't wAte for the new me and new life. good luck to u

[Ellody 9]

Hi I'm new on here. I only told my husband, son, sister and two close friends. It's your decision. Good luck. My surgery date is July 3 rd.

[Yolyann 56]

Thank you all. Im happy to know that everyone on here is so understanding