Jealousy

[Yolyann 56]

How come my husband doesn't find me attractive? I wear hat from sun up to sun down but for the past days I fix my hair & not wearing a hat. He haven't said a world. The thing is I find him so sexy & attractive. He's in the late 50's in my eyes he's so fine. He never tells me I'm beautiful sext attractive. I look nice. Or even I like that color hair you got. I'm always checking him out. His interest is only me cooking & him having sex & telling me your all mine right? Then saying I'm all yours. I can't get enough of him he is so handsome & fine. I just don't get it. I don't want him saying nice stuff when I slim. I wanna hear it now.

I'm I whining or sound like a child??

Nope not childish. I know how you feel. And it ain't fun

[Sunflwr76 45]

I would talk to him!

[bellepink77 44]

The grass is greener on the other side because its fertilized with bullshit

[kizzy 99]

Before my surgery me and my husband separated because he still wants to be a kid and my weight could of been and issue as well but he always said to me that my weight never bothered him not that I'm 70lb lighter I slowly see him tryin to sneak back in my life! But I'm not about that!! If you didn't like me when I was fat don't come around now that I'm smaller because this chick is never settling ever again I deserve way more better!!

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

I would talk to him!

I don't want him to know how I feel. If he doesn't know it by now he will never know after over 16 years.

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

Before my surgery me and my husband separated because he still wants to be a kid and my weight could of been and issue as well but he always said to me that my weight never bothered him not that I'm 70lb lighter I slowly see him tryin to sneak back in my life! But I'm not about that!! If you didn't like me when I was fat don't come around now that I'm smaller because this chick is never settling ever again I deserve way more better!!

Well said!

[dmariesc 84]

How come my husband doesn't find me attractive? I wear hat from sun up to sun down but for the past days I fix my hair & not wearing a hat. He haven't said a world. The thing is I find him so sexy & attractive. He's in the late 50's in my eyes he's so fine. He never tells me I'm beautiful sext attractive. I look nice. Or even I like that color hair you got. I'm always checking him out. His interest is only me cooking & him having sex & telling me your all mine right? Then saying I'm all yours. I can't get enough of him he is so handsome & fine. I just don't get it. I don't want him saying nice stuff when I slim. I wanna hear it now.

I'm I whining or sound like a child??

You are not whining Mami you are venting.."totally different :-) I know you don't want to talk to him but seriously my husband is always asking me to please tell him how I feel about things because he said he seriously cannot tell by my actions etc. he admits to being clueless although I really do think he tries but some husbands just need it said loud and clear so there is no gray area.

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

You are not whining Mami you are venting.."totally different :-) I know you don't want to talk to him but seriously my husband is always asking me to please tell him how I feel about things because he said he seriously cannot tell by my actions etc. he admits to being clueless although I really do think he tries but some husbands just need it said loud and clear so there is no gray area.

He is old fashion & think there is only 4/5 ways of having sex. I want him to grab me coming threw the door of course when kids are in school. He is 55 I'm 33 this is the 2nd marriage 18 he lasted last one. If he doesn't know there's many sex position by now. Can't tell me I'm beautiful or nice things. I dont wanna be with him.

[dmariesc 84]

He is old fashion & think there is only 4/5 ways of having sex. I want him to grab me coming threw the door of course when kids are in school. He is 55 I'm 33 this is the 2nd marriage 18 he lasted last one. If he doesn't know there's many sex position by now. Can't tell me I'm beautiful or nice things. I dont wanna be with him.

Can't say I blame you there Mami! My husband is 50 but he is not old fashioned and does give me compliments often. I agree it's hard to keep things spiced up if only one of you is trying.

[Sunflwr76 45]

Miami- if your husband won't do things on his own to you - then it sounds like you need to take control of the situation! Plan a night, get a babysitter, and YOU SHOW your husband how and what you want & like! I can't imagine any man not wanting to participate!! Good luck

[SaltLifeClint 3]

Jealousie is stupid. If my wife wants to run off with another man, then I am ok with that. I want her to be happy, and I want to be wanted. If she wants someone more than me, then she should go. I say that with no malice at all. I have never doubted her in 20 years of marriage, and I won't spend time/energy worrying about it. Stop the pussyfooting, and find a nice gentle decent way to tell the spouses to grow up. As for flirting in marriage: There is a definite difference between flirting and coming on to someone. If you don't know the diff, then don't flirt. Simple.

[kiwiladydee 402]

Jealousie is stupid. If my wife wants to run off with another man' date=' then I am ok with that. I want her to be happy, and I want to be wanted. If she wants someone more than me, then she should go. I say that with no malice at all. I have never doubted her in 20 years of marriage, and I won't spend time/energy worrying about it. Stop the pussyfooting, and find a nice gentle decent way to tell the spouses to grow up. As for flirting in marriage: There is a definite difference between flirting and coming on to someone. If you don't know the diff, then don't flirt. Simple.[/quote']

Love the statement!!!!