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I know this has nothing to do with rny but I just wanted to say happy mothers day to all of the mothers on the forum!!! And also to any dads that are single fathers acting as not only a dad but a mom too!! I hope everyone has a wonderful fun filled day!!!

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Thank you very much. This is such a great forum its helped me alot. Esp since surgery is thursday so today will be my kast splurge

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Thanks & happy mothers day to all the moms out there.

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I had a horrible day.

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I'm so sorry you had a bad day! If there is anything I can do, if you need an ear I'm here. Please know there are people who are here for you no matter what. In a world that can be so cold, you have a warm place here.

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I'm so sorry you had a bad day! If there is anything I can do' date=' if you need an ear I'm here. Please know there are people who are here for you no matter what. In a world that can be so cold, you have a warm place here.[/quote']

Thank you.. :)

I have 3 kids as you know by my screen name. Oldest 15 years old & young kiddos 3 years old & 2 years old. I'm here for everyone. I put my family 1st then my self. I have a lot of patience cuz my 3 year old has learning disabilities & 2 year old has autism. I do it all. Cook clean parents meeting. All my kids are in school. With this being said.

My hubby doesn't cook but he makes delicious pancakes. He didn't bother to make it. He made Lipton Soup for him self. He didn't even wish me a happy mothers day. He went out to the cenmentery to visit his mom grave. He past by my favorite restaurant & he knows I'm aloud to cheat only today cuz I have to liquid diet tomorrow & Tuesday I have endoscopy. He didn't bring me anything. He didn't get me a card,flowers nothing. My 15 year old didn't wash the dishes. Complain all day. My family didn't call me. I feel like on my day no one care but when it's fathers day. I'm making the kids do something buying a card. Getting a tool or w.e. From home depot. Getting balloons. I like go out of my way for my hubby but he doesn't care about me. Next month I'm doing nothing for him.

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I had a horrible day.

I'm so sorry hoping tomorrow is better for you!!

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It's worst I have to do liquid diet LMFAO... Sucks! I'm so hungry :(

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It will get easier....I promise!!!

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I know that's your husband but you need to take some time for yourself. My sister is the SMS way. She does everything at her house. Her husband and son don't lift a finger to o anything. So now that he stopped doing something's her husband has a attitude. I wish you the best.

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