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2ndChanceHeth

By 2ndChanceHeth, in The Gals' Room

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2ndChanceHeth    15

2ndChanceHeth
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My husband and I are both being sleeved on monday 9/30.... Wondering since both of us are having surgery, how long we will need to wait to have sex..... Anybody else sleeved the same time as their partner?

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1SuperBonBon    221

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As I read from another poster, they like you to wait at least until you get home. :P

In all seriousnes, from what I have read, you can have sex when you feel up to.

Good Luck!

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Susie in Lima    320

Susie in Lima
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As I read from another poster, they like you to wait at least until you get home. :P

In all seriousnes, from what I have read, you can have sex when you feel up to.

Good Luck!

BonBon You just made me crack up!

My dr said as soon as I felt like it, I could!

Enjoy the journey with your spouse! My husband did not have the surgery but he did get on board and he has lost 60 pounds right along side me. It helps to have someone to do it with!

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Sofficial    162

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I think its so wonderful that you guys are getting sleeved together. You are so lucky to have someone right there by your side, who can understand and relate to everything your going through. Congrats to you both on your surgery date...you'll be in my prayers

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Squid    23

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My bf could eat deep fried folie gras dipped in mayonaise and not gain weight so just my surgery was the limiting factor. I was only able to make It 5 days but the Dr Told me I needed to wait ten. Oops.

all my stitches was kind of a position limiter but he was able to work around it heh. Doggie/spooning might be good for yall initially. Neither has to be on top using abs much. Use some pillows in a creative manner :)

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lotti    154

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My dr said when I feel ready, no acrobatics till later.

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Sassygirl06    962

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Soon as he is rising to the occasion....and you are feeling frisky enough. Just no acrobatics yet...save that for at least 29-30 pounds lost! Hehe...don't want get anything sprung....well at least anything that's not supposed to be sprung...hehe ;)

Good luck and have fun! :)

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