Confused

[Canada here 35]

So here it is. I had my surgery on August9 with Dr. Lopez in Mexico, so far so good, down 30lbs, but here is my problem, my BF told me yesterday that I will be the worst ex smoker ever, as in the worst reformed fat person, I'm sure u all know what I mean, sure I'm 6 weeks out, I really have a fixation with the weigh scale, i expected that, I mean really give a girl a break, I really figure its his own insecurities coming out. I love him to pieces but he's pissin me off, he is also a little over weight, like 40 lbs or so, my mom has lived with us since 2009, she expects us to cook for her all the time, she is 81 and deserves us do in that for her, but here's another problem, this past month I have never seen her cook or bake as much as she has, WTF, so about that, but I'm venting, I really feel everyone in my household is against me right now.

[belladona 153]

Wow that sucks, stick to your guns dont let them get to you, you can do this just keep doing what your doing you will be ok.

[marynoel 12]

Don't let them sabotage you! You don't have to eat just because someone made it for you. Talk to your Mom about what you can eat and tell her you really need her help. Maybe if you make them feel part of your journey, they'll be more supportive .