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A little worried that my t-shirt is either too tight or too short for my current weight. Honest thoughts please?

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It's neither. Looks great on you. Go ahead and wear that in public confidently.

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It's perfect. You look great!

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Thank god for this forum! I have nothing but men and boy at home to ask these types of questions and we all know how much they hate when we ask them questions like this!

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Yup looks perfect!

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Perfect!

You know what is intersting is I am digging out clothes that I wore late winter. Some of them I felt very self conscious about back in Feb when I hit goal - like they were too revealing or something. Now I put them on and wonder what I was thinking - I look great! HAHA Part of the dismorphia i had was always feeling like i needed to cover up, or i am too old to wear something or whatever. What came along with that is when I wore something form fitting, or a little shorter I felt a little foolish or something like "who is that old fat lady kidding" sort of thing.

I think posting here for wardrobe feedback is a great idea. So many of my girlfriends are overweight, married and just plain stodgy. They wear black brown and gray unisex kind of clothes (fleece and jeans, the Seattle uniform) and so I don't really trust their judgement either...LOL I want to look stylish, but not outlandish or ridiculous if you know what I mean.

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You are looking radiant!

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Perfect!

You know what is intersting is I am digging out clothes that I wore late winter. Some of them I felt very self conscious about back in Feb when I hit goal - like they were too revealing or something. Now I put them on and wonder what I was thinking - I look great! HAHA Part of the dismorphia i had was always feeling like i needed to cover up' date=' or i am too old to wear something or whatever. What came along with that is when I wore something form fitting, or a little shorter I felt a little foolish or something like "who is that old fat lady kidding" sort of thing.

I think posting here for wardrobe feedback is a great idea. So many of my girlfriends are overweight, married and just plain stodgy. They wear black brown and gray unisex kind of clothes (fleece and jeans, the Seattle uniform) and so I don't really trust their judgement either...LOL I want to look stylish, but not outlandish or ridiculous if you know what I mean.[/quote']

I know EXACTLY what you mean. Last thing I want to be is that 40-something woman trying to look too young. But I don't want the "Mom" look either. Can't wait until I hit my goal weight to re-define my style. As it is, I wear black pants to work every day. I'll vary the top, the jacket, etc., but it's black pants daily. Partly because of travel, partly because I don't have to think or worry about what to wear, partly because I'm not comfortable covering my rather ample bottom in bright colors :)

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A little worried that my t-shirt is either too tight or too short for my current weight. Honest thoughts please?

You look great.

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I think you look great and the shirt fits perfectly!!

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