mentor Looking for a Mentor/Buddy

[Think Sleeve...Be Sleeve 4]

I am looking for a buddy. This whole process has really freaked me out and I need support. It is hard to talk to the people I know (not that they are not trying) but they don't get it. It be honest I have more people freak out that I am taking such a drastic measure.

Last year I got thyroid cancer, it resulted in 2 surgeries and the removal of all of my thyroid. Long story short I am not cancer free but my life is changed forever. I have always struggled with my weight but now it is becoming a bigger problem and health issues become a greater risk to me. I know I need to make this change and I know it is the right choice.

Help!

[Pookeyism 1,143]

If you need to talk I am more than happy to do so. I can't really hold a conversation at work, but can be free if given some notice in the evenings.

The community here can be a tremendous support all on it's own.

For the people that seem to not understand, ask them would they have rather you not had the cancer removed? You went through an invasive procedure to remove something makeing you sick. This is no different.

You have gone through alot already, wow. Good luck!

[Think Sleeve...Be Sleeve 4]

Thank You...I think I needed that!

[ataloss123 3]

My surgery is the same day as you. I am also a cancer survivor and I am getting the sleeve for my health. I would be glad to be your buddy.

[Think Sleeve...Be Sleeve 4]

That is awesome and I totally think we should be buddies !!!

[Dondie Olivia 56]

Hey, I'm in Aurora and could use a local buddy. Dr. Snyder was also my surgeon. Go figure. lol

[badass_ladyfriend 0]

Hey there-- I know this thread started a while ago, but I wanted to say hello from a fellow cancer survivor and future sleever (10 days til surgery!) We have been through such harder things in our life, that this positive choice feels so empowering!

I'd love to connect with other May 2014 sleevers and/or cancer survivors!

xo

lisette!