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I've read so many horror stories how people have lost weight and their relationship suffered or failed. How about all the ones that have re amped!!! I'm an optimistic person and would love to read about some.

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I have to say that it has made my relationship better! I'm no longer depressed and I have A LOT more energy so I enjoy doing more things with my husband and family. I also don't feel like everyone is judging me for being big :) HAPPY LIFE :)

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It depends .. My relationship with MYSELF has improved greatly! And once I did that I found my husband which is amazing to me and for me ::-)

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I'm hoping for the same that this will help both me and my relationship, I'm so excited and can't wait!

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I wish you the beat! Just remember to focus on you first .... The rest will fall into place

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Well, my husband and I are both sleeved, so I'm not sure how things would have gone if we both were not on this journey together. I think we would have been fine if either of us was sleeved and the other wasn't but hard to say. Although I went first (about 5 months before my hubby) he was supportive from the beginning until now.

What I always hear in regards to how WLS affects relationships is this: If you are on rocky ground to begin with, WLS won't make things any better. If you are in a good solid relationship to start, then WLS only makes things better.

That seems to be true for us. Everyone is different!

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