Starting to second guess myself

[BerryChic 26]

I thought I was the only one who felt this way, too. Surgery scheduled for 10/23 and I am suddenly scared. I was so excited to get this done and get on with feeling better (no more joint pain or HBP) but now I am wondering if I'll be able to handle it. I am very fortunate to have a great support system and I know this is my last chance to change my life, but I completely understand your post. I hope the important people in your life realize how much you would like their support to help you through such a major transition. Keeping my fingers crossed

[MsK1972 112]

Wow I really don't know what to say....good luck with all of that.

[janelle_vs 2]

Thanks guys I really love all your fees bad. It's loke one minute I'm like f**k it in going just do it and stop bitching then the next day I'm like I don't need it I'm going end up looking like a damn stick. I pray about it every chance I think I'm wanting on a sign from God lol.

[keglenne 23]

Everyone is different no two people are the same. Having said that my point is just because you decided to go another route does not mean this is the best decision for someone else. Cancelling a surgery based on someone elses decision to get healthy is scary. This means that you were not doing this for you. I dont care what other people do in your household the decision should solely be based on you. If you can loose weight without surgery kuddos to you but for people that have to use surgery as a tool to help them because all other measures have been exausted kuddos to them also. No one should not be judged based on the route they took to become apart of a life changing event. So if you dont have anything supportive to say dont say nothing at all. SOMEPEOPLE GOT NERVES

[peachie86 63]

I agree with you the two previous post! good points