Divorce/ break up post sleeve?

bethxxx · September 23, 2013

Sometimes one person grows in a different direction than the other. It happens.

Yes I think that's what has happened. It's sad but true

bethxxx · September 23, 2013

Why was this relationship good for 2 years and you were ok with him not working or doing anything but now that you have changed you want him to leave' date=' I don't get that part. I usually see this when men get married and the wife wants a divorce. The wife didn't work the entire marriage nor contribute financially but now they are divorcing. Oh well if your not happy you should never settle but it seems like you both were using each other, you supported this guy because he came to your rescue. Now you say you don't need rescuing anymore.
You have to do whatever makes you happy but there may be some other issues that need to be addressed.[/quote']

I was in the shower and I couldn't stop thinking about what you said. Trying to find a reason as to why this is.

I think maybe it's because I had such low self esteem before that I didn't care if someone was taking advantage of me because in exchange I got affection and attention that I felt I couldn't get from anyone else.

Now that I am starting to love myself I think I deserve more, whereas before I could never say that. I thought I didn't deserve anything because I was worthless.

I wish you didn't make me explore these deeper issues!!!