Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

Just really curious...how many days after surgery did people do the deed?? No specific instructions given to me nor was I asked...and i'm feeling a little urge; i'm sure the hubby is too :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was told by my surgeon do it once you feel ready about 11 days it took me to be ready. Now after almost 50 pounds off my husband said that everytime we do it he feels different like if he is being with a different woman each time because he says that my body feels different every day. I like that and he love it. So happy love my sleeve

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just really curious...how many days after surgery did people do the deed?? No specific instructions given to me nor was I asked...and i'm feeling a little urge; i'm sure the hubby is too :)

For me it was 4 or 5 days.....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just really curious...how many days after surgery did people do the deed?? No specific instructions given to me nor was I asked...and i'm feeling a little urge; i'm sure the hubby is too <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />

I don't think there is an operations manual or instructions, although I didn't think to ask!!! People should, except that it is so often anxious about so many of the important details. Without it was a matter if action, reaction and what came natural as part of getting back to normal. Now we have to work on the frequency of playtime! Yes!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh wow! I wasn't feeling too good then, but now I am- seems like it's okay then :) thank you

I don't know if "it's ok" per say, I was just letting you know that, I didn't' wait that long. I am not one for rules....anyways. I have had some soft foods like boiled eggs, and some stuff I have thrown in my vitamix, just because I can't take another Protein drink.... I figured if I feel good.....why not?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

whenever you feel ready and no pain.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't know if "it's ok" per say' date=' I was just letting you know that, I didn't' wait that long. I am not one for rules....anyways. I have had some soft foods like boiled eggs, and some stuff I have thrown in my vitamix, just because I can't take another Protein drink.... I figured if I feel good.....why not?[/quote']

When did you have your surgery?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You made me giggle when you said that your husband feels like he's been with a different woman every time lol

True lol

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×