Are you FREAKING kidding me?!?

[Brighteyes 237]

Brighteyes' date=' do you not have anything to do today? Would you like to continue!?[/quote']

Comical. I responded to a comment. Failing to see your need to be belittling in the process.

[Brighteyes 237]

Chill out people' date=' and return back to the OP's subject. If you really feel the need to continue to argue, then take it to pm.

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Susan...just saw your post. Will do.

[LI Gemini NY 607]

He sees you everyday so he's not going to notice those changes, maybe leave for a week...lol he'll notice when ya come back :-D

[zenandnow 514]

He sees you everyday so he's not going to notice those changes' date=' maybe leave for a week...lol he'll notice when ya come back :-D[/quote']

BWAHAHAHA!! Now THAT oughta do it!

[mummytolewis 21]

He sees you everyday so he's not going to notice those changes' date=' maybe leave for a week...lol he'll notice when ya come back :-D[/quote']

Ha ha ha ha ha........,..,,,,,, thats so funny:-D

[buplee 556]

I don't know what to say about your husband not making a positive statement about your weight loss. Does he feel uncomfortable with the emerging you and feel threatened? I think some guys can be idiots and not the most sympathetic. Which as a guy, I don't understand.

Btw- good luck to you and congrats on your weight loss.

[ElyQuint 446]

Okay, I have been thinking about this post all night. I dropped 39 pounds so far and my man won't "validate" me by congratulating or noticing and it makes me crazy. Last night he was watching WWE and some guy named the big show came on and he said "wow, he lost a lot of weight". I just pretended he was talking about me, and said thank you. Lol.

[zenandnow 514]

I don't know what to say about your husband not making a positive statement about your weight loss. Does he feel uncomfortable with the emerging you and feel threatened? I think some guys can be idiots and not the most sympathetic. Which as a guy, I don't understand.

Btw- good luck to you and congrats on your weight loss.

Thanks buplee. I don't know if he's threatened; I don't think so as it would be kind of out of character for him, but who knows? Anything is possible! He did make a comment yesterday which surprised me; we were out running errands and as we walked out of a store he said under his breath 'that's right, buddy, she's going home with me'. I said 'what?!?!' and he said some guy was looking at me and didn't look away even when he looked at the guy. I didn't notice any of this, so it was hard to tell if it really happened or if some poor schmoe was just minding his own business and just happened to glance at me. He's never been the jealous type, so that was out of character. I didn't really know what to make of this.

Okay, I have been thinking about this post all night. I dropped 39 pounds so far and my man won't "validate" me by congratulating or noticing and it makes me crazy. Last night he was watching WWE and some guy named the big show came on and he said "wow, he lost a lot of weight". I just pretended he was talking about me, and said thank you. Lol.

LOL! Maybe I should have tried this tactic.

[Meliss000 283]

That is awesome! I guess maybe in a way he really notices you and your changes, some reason men don't always feel the need validate to us, but seems like he is really proud of the "eye candy" you have become! Good for you! Great job on the weight loss!

[M2G 1,836]

Thanks buplee. I don't know if he's threatened; I don't think so as it would be kind of out of character for him, but who knows? Anything is possible! He did make a comment yesterday which surprised me; we were out running errands and as we walked out of a store he said under his breath 'that's right, buddy, she's going home with me'. I said 'what?!?!' and he said some guy was looking at me and didn't look away even when he looked at the guy. I didn't notice any of this, so it was hard to tell if it really happened or if some poor schmoe was just minding his own business and just happened to glance at me. He's never been the jealous type, so that was out of character. I didn't really know what to make of this.

LOL! Maybe I should have tried this tactic.

OMG, your post reminded me of that ad from Sears Optical. OMG, way too funny! (and also so he IS paying attention sometimes!! we can give him extra credit for that...lol)

http://www.ispot.tv/ad/7dwH/sears-optical-thats-a-mannequin

[zenandnow 514]

OMG' date=' your post reminded me of that ad from Sears Optical. OMG, way too funny! (and also so he IS paying attention sometimes!! we can give him extra credit for that...lol)

http://www.ispot.tv/ad/7dwH/sears-optical-thats-a-mannequin[/quote']

M2G, I just DIED!! That is HILARIOUS!!

You're right, I should give him credit for that. Guess it caught me off guard, but it really was a good thing.

[ElyQuint 446]

Seriously I think my man is afraid that if he says anything positive about the weight lost he will be saying something negative about my body prior to it. He clearly doesn't care about my appearance and that is ultimately supportive.

[chefcoll 53]

Well I think you look beautiful!

[nmck 68]

I wonder if wherever he saw pics of Snooki was specifically showing before/after pics or specifically talking about herweight loss. He sees you daily and the changes are harder to notice. Also, some guys are afraid to mentionanything weight related b/c if not worded just perfectly, they can end up eith a mouthful of their own foot! I would consider making your own before/after flyer to print for him and ask if he saw this hot brunette who lost over 50 lbs!