delta_girl 931 Posted August 31, 2013 (edited) I almost never read these forums anymore. They are tedious and repetitive and full of misinformation. I am a few weeks from a year out and will post some pics at that point. I totally agree with my surgeon that most if what is posted is hearsay. I drink beer, I drink wine, I eat anything I want. I don't always exercise. I taste Desserts, dips, donuts, etc. I'm down about 85 lbs and continue to lose weight, though it has slowed. I have no fears of regain. My overall habits are very healthy now. I wear a size 6-8 and don't feel the need to be a size 0 or 2. Skin is an issue enough now. Chill out. Edited September 1, 2013 by Alex Brecher Odd use of a four letter word 1 Heartonsleeve reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swizzly 901 Posted September 1, 2013 I think a wee bit of ignorance turned out to be bliss in my case, which is often true for me lol. I have awesome medical care, but I was never given a goal weight and was also never told how much I should expect to lose etc. Part of that may have been down to language barriers? But I am glad in some ways that I didn't know about the stuff that's come up now a couple years later, cos in the meantime I lost 100 lb cos that's what I thought I'd lose and I didn't think anything of it. I only started with all this reading and 5:2ing etc cos of going gluten free actually! But I'm so glad I did! I can see that regain is completely possible and I'm just not having it. 1 Ms skinniness reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lsereno 2,525 Posted September 1, 2013 I almost never read these forums anymore. They are tedious and repetitive and full of misinformation. I am a few weeks from a year out and will post some pics at that point. I totally agree with my surgeon that most if what is posted is hearsay. I drink beer' date=' I drink wine, I eat anything I want. I don't always exercise. I taste desserts, dips, donuts, etc. I'm down about 85 lbs and continue to lose weight, though it has slowed. I have no fears of regain. My overall habits are very healthy now. I wear a size 6-8 and don't feel the need to be a size 0 or 2. Skin is an issue enough now. Chill out.[/quote'] More power to you! Eating whatever I want got me morbidly obese and if I ate whatever I wanted now, I would be on my way back there. My reality is I have to weigh, measure, and track to stay at goal. It is worth it to me. I'm looking forward to 18 moths at goal in three weeks! Lynda 4 Ms skinniness, M2G, LouiseC and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missmeow 156 Posted September 1, 2013 I haven't read the whole thread but I would read these studies for information but not let it get you down. I am going to be mean here but there is going to be a percentage of people who are going to fail, either because they really did not understand what they got themselves into, or have a compulsion to eat constantly that is more psychological than physical, etc. I think if you weigh and measure you foods and have a reality based concept of what you are eating, then you will have developed habits that should keep you from regaining to obesity. Exercise is also key and I wonder how many of the failures are not moving at all. Just moderate exercise helps. 1 gamergirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M2G 1,836 Posted September 1, 2013 I almost never read these forums anymore. They are tedious and repetitive and full of misinformation. I am a few weeks from a year out and will post some pics at that point. I totally agree with my surgeon that most if what is posted is hearsay. I drink beer, I drink wine, I eat anything I want. I don't always exercise. I taste desserts, dips, donuts, etc. I'm down about 85 lbs and continue to lose weight, though it has slowed. I have no fears of regain. My overall habits are very healthy now. I wear a size 6-8 and don't feel the need to be a size 0 or 2. Skin is an issue enough now. Chill out. So you are 11 months out?? Please do pop in when you are 3, 5, and 10 years out. ________________________________________________________________________________________________ I'm editing this because I re-used the reported word and so my post got eaten along with the edit to the OP (Alex why couldn't you just edit that word out like you did on delta_girls post?) Anyway, let's see how good my memory is... I took your post to be like those old makeup ads that said "don't hate me because I'm beautiful" (how annoying right?) Look no one is going to jump down your throat because you have glided through the last 11 months since your surgery. You eat what you want, you don't exercise, and you are happy not being a size 0. YAY! If you can do this for the long haul, I would love to hear all about it. 6 Georgia, No game, Ms skinniness and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
No game 14,437 Posted September 1, 2013 I think we can safely say those are some pictures that most of us can give a **** about too.... 5 Butterthebean, M2G, Georgia and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms skinniness 3,003 Posted September 1, 2013 More power to you! Eating whatever I want got me morbidly obese and if I ate whatever I wanted now' date=' I would be on my way back there. My reality is I have to weigh, measure, and track to stay at goal. It is worth it to me. I'm looking forward to 18 moths at goal in three weeks! Lynda[/quote'] I agree with Lynda 100% I highly suggest you go through the veterans post and reevaluate your belief system. Do some research on the web. Right now your almost a year and that is still like the honeymoon phase. I'm almost 2 years out and I can eat a lot more food than before especially the cr** food. I hope you reevaluate and eat healthy foods. 5 Georgia, Butterthebean, No game and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Butterthebean 8,146 Posted September 1, 2013 Butter' date=' you just rock. Period.[/quote'] I wasn't too subtle was I? 3 Ms skinniness, Georgia and M2G reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zenandnow 514 Posted September 1, 2013 I wasn't too subtle was I? Nonsense. Subtlety is overrated. Sometimes a sledgehammer is the only effective tool!! 4 Butterthebean, M2G, Ms skinniness and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M2G 1,836 Posted September 1, 2013 I wasn't too subtle was I? I've seen enough of your over 3,000 posts to know that subtlety is just NOT your area of specialty. But that's all good. You call 'em how you see 'em! 2 Butterthebean and Ms skinniness reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms skinniness 3,003 Posted September 1, 2013 I wasn't too subtle was I? I love how you state things "right to the point ." 2 M2G and Butterthebean reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sydney Susan 333 Posted September 1, 2013 I almost never read these forums anymore. They are tedious and repetitive and full of misinformation. I am a few weeks from a year out and will post some pics at that point. As long as you're sure that posting photos of yourself at 1 year out wouldn't be tedious, repetitive or confusing for the rest of us dumb souls who are apparently so easily entertained. Sheesh, why bother posting with an opening sentence like that?? You can stay around and try to correct mis-information or chose to leave something that you clearly don't see as having any value. Same choice we all have... no one forces anyone to be here. Put-downs are unnecessary. 2 tparkerc59 and Ms skinniness reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feedyoureye 3,087 Posted September 1, 2013 Butter, did I miss something? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
No game 14,437 Posted September 1, 2013 Alex edited deltas post and some comments after.. Actually at this point I would like if he would of taken everything she said down and following comments.. In my eyes she ruined a perfectly good thread. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lsereno 2,525 Posted September 1, 2013 Godwin's law. Lynda 4 M2G, nervousnelly, No game and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites