Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Waiting! Driving myself nuts...Help!



Recommended Posts

Ok I'm cleared for my surgery. All the paperwork, test and insurance cleared nw I'm waiting for a surgery date. I'm driving myself crazy over here. What did you guys do to prepare during the waiting period?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Research: what to eat, when, how, and how much. Stock up on good stuff, shed the bad stuff. Research exercise, find what works for you, plan out your lifelong commitment to being mean and lean.

Think a lot: what is food....really? Is it life..is it love...is it meaning? Or is it energy that tastes good going in? It will still be that, chew slower, concentrate more. Quality time with food has nothing to do with quantity. Your taste buds are in your mouth, not in the stretchy part of your belly that will soon be gone. I enjoy food now more than before. Knowing that food is no longer making me prematurely dead seems to enhance its appeal.

Anticipate life without obesity. If you have used it emotionally find other coping mechanisms. If you have hated yourself because of it, prepare to forgive and love yourself.

Find non-eating pursuits to distract yourself, especially in the pre-op diet time.

Prepare to empty your closet several times, buy cheap clothes until goal. Thrift stores are Gman approved. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow! Thanks for the input!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You my friend are in very good (and probably ample) company. I'm going crazy here myself. Here are some of my things I need to get done in the next 7 weeks.

1) Go through message boards. Try to at least look at positive ones more than negative ones (this is hard for me as I am searching for reasons to prove I'm crazy for doing this)

2) Research tasty Protein powders. Looks like they are hit or miss. And don't buy too much it seems since I've read here sometimes taste buds change postop.

3) Clean out my pantry and make room for the powder and the broth. Definitely need to overhaul mine. If I don't it will be a reminder of what I can't have.

4) Try not to do anything stupid to get my surgery cancelled or delayed. 4A. Don't worry so much I accidentally have a heart attack. I'm not giving advice- this is my personal list. 4B. Beef up on Vitamins so my preop blood work looks stellar. If I have any bleeding issues hopefully the Iron I take will reduce/eliminate the need for transfusion due to blood loss and will probably help me feel better postop. 4C. Don't catch a cold. Avoid sick people like the plague.

That's my short list. I'm sure it will grow over the next 5 weeks.

{)i(} Sent from my iPhone using VST {)i(}

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't even had my first appointment and I'm driving myself crazy waiting until the surgery I'm so excited. Spend my time on here. I needed that reply even though I still have a ways to go.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes! I stalk this website! Lol! I'm starting to stock up on my Protein Drinks. Have you tried the Isopure drinks? They come in different fruity flavors.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't tried any drinks yet. I work 6 days a week right now and literally have very little time to prepare. The Isopure brand is on my list of those to try. I hate milk and from what I've heard many taste like milk so I have to figure something out. By the time I will have more time off which is in 5 weeks I have to start my preop diet. What a mess! I need help so I need to search for what people who don't care for milk did.

{)i(} Sent from my iPhone using VST {)i(}

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

No I haven't bought any yet. What I have heard from a lot of people is that your taste buds will change so I don't want to try them all, find one I like and buy that. Then turn around and it just taste awful! I figured I would buy the samples maybe a pack a pay check and then try them after the surgery when I can.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you Lolly. I plan on making the Protein drinks my top priority right now. If you happen to remember let me know and if I find out I will let you know :)

{)i(} Sent from my iPhone using VST {)i(}

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I Think this is it.

Syntrax nectar whey Protein Isolate, powder, Lemon Tea

I've never tried it. Only heard about it on one of the threads. I ended up having to google it to get the name. >.< terrible memory of mine. Hope this helps.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks Lolly it does. I will add it to my list. I hate that I don't like the taste of milk, but I'm ok with ice cream (I know weird). I don't eat ice cream often, but I was thinking maybe I can get small containers and freeze the shakes and eat them with a spoon like ice cream. Don't know but I have to get it in and I was thinking that would be a way to trick myself into it. Ill have to get it in somehow!

{)i(} Sent from my iPhone using VST {)i(}

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good luck with it. And let me know if it works. I tried the Visalus shakes before and they tasted great at first then after three weeks that was it. Made me kind of sick.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If you go to a website, BJ's bariatrics, you can order a shipment of samples of the syntrex nectar - I think you can get 12, but YOU choose which flavors. They have a tea, a lemonade, fuzzy naval - a few things that seem fruity and not milky.

Do you like milkshakes? I've been putting my Protein Shakes in the blender with some ice, milk, and a banana. Tastes like a milkshake to me, but I don't mind milk.

Good luck! I'm testing them too, I googled Protein Shake samples and came up with a bunch of things!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have all of my samples. Now I just have to find the time to try them!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Lizette1122

      Anyone had the TORe procedure? How did it go? How much weight did you loose? 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LadyVeteran1

      Sleeve surgery is on April 14th.  I am counting the days!!  Can't wait!
      · 3 replies
      1. Brookie2shoes

        Me too girl!! Are you in the full liquid diet right now? It’s sooooo hard!

      2. LadyVeteran1

        Not yet. I was told I only have to do 24 hours of a liquid diet. But I have my pre-op tomorrow so I’m going to confirm if I need to do longer.

      3. buildabetteranna

        Your so close now! It's gonna be great :) Wishing you a speedy recovery and looking forward to seeing how it goes!

    • buildabetteranna

      Down 33 lbs and slightly stalled, but I'm gonna reevaluate and push through. I started back to work last week after 2 years of being disabled due to mental health as well as my weight. It's a great job and I'm just so happy to have this opportunity at a second chance at life. Hope everyone is having their best journey ❤️ Together, we got this!
      · 2 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Great work Anna! Keep it up 😁

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 1 reply
      1. stevieoriole

        Am feeling this right now. My surgery date is 4/1. Sign the consent tomorrow. I feel like I overloaded myself with too much info, too many opinions. Got to the point where I was wondering if I should do this. Then I thought of my reasons for taking this step and that settled my nerves. Still get moments of doubt but am striving forward. Am just going to follow my book from the surgeon. Joined this because I was told by my dietician that I should do this for support

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×