CantHateYourselfThin 29 Posted August 19, 2013 I have my surgery in a few weeks and hubby has his a week after mine. Doctor offered to do us both on the same day, but we needed to juggle our kids. Anyone else? 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CantHateYourselfThin 29 Posted August 19, 2013 Wait I just realized this was my very first topic. LOL 1 MCM13 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LipstickLady 25,682 Posted August 19, 2013 There are tons here! You should get great responses! 1 CantHateYourselfThin reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TARPHR 29 Posted August 19, 2013 Husband and I were sleeved together in Mexico on 8/1. Mother in law watched our 4 year old. We recooped together and it was the best thing we have done! Teri 2 ProudGrammy and CantHateYourselfThin reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigDaddyJoe 246 Posted August 19, 2013 My wife and I were sleeved 6 weeks apart (me 03/08/13, her 04/19/13). We wanted to do it closer together, but she had issues with getting time off from work. 2 CantHateYourselfThin and ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CantHateYourselfThin 29 Posted August 19, 2013 Great! I have often wondered if getting sleeved (or any WLS) "together" avoids some of the emotional pitfalls of one person doing it and shifting the dynamic of the relationship? Obviously I know the "bad relationship gets worse and good relationship gets better" thought... but I wonder if both persons having WLS puts it on a different playing field? The "bad" stories on all the forums seem to be when only one makes massive changes. I haven't really seen many where both do it and both make massive changes. I mean it will be a wee tad harder to pull any passive aggressive crap when you both can't eat anything and you both physically feel the same way. 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MCM13 87 Posted August 19, 2013 My fiance and I are both getting sleeved the same day--Sept 30th. I think it'll make the pre-op dieting and all the stages easier by going through it together. 2 CantHateYourselfThin and ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ttyler1029 26 Posted August 23, 2013 My husband is doing bypass on Tuesday, and I am getting sleeved in September. Doing it together is sooo much easier than any diets we have tried alone Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gamergirl 4,610 Posted August 23, 2013 Yup! August 2nd was our date. So nice having a friend to do it all with. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LI Gemini NY 607 Posted August 23, 2013 My girlfriend was sleeved on 7/8 and I was sleeved on 8/14. I couldn't see myself doing this without her. I feel like our relationship is 10x stronger since we've been on this journey. 1 gamergirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CantHateYourselfThin 29 Posted August 27, 2013 Good luck to everyone!!!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites