Canary Diamond 186 Posted August 10, 2013 I found the coolest site, ladies! You enter a height and weight and are shown a gallery of photos of real women with these stats. This may be a useful tool in helping determine your desired goal weight. http://www.mybodygal...com/search.html 3 SuzyB, Triple H and bodie602 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wasabi 57 Posted August 10, 2013 Very cool! Thanks for sharing. Keeps it real since when we look in the mirror we don't always see what we really see. 1 Canary Diamond reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Canary Diamond 186 Posted August 10, 2013 I agree. This is so perpetuated by television too. For example, I LOVE SVU, but it always bothers me on crime shows when they're listing a female victim's stats and they say something like, "mid-twenties, 5'5", 115 pounds..." and the woman is of an average build. That would make her around 140, people. 1 SheWins1 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CowgirlJane 14,260 Posted August 10, 2013 Keep in mind if you have been really heavy that your bones and internal stuff weigh a little more. So, your goal weight might need to be a couple of pounds higher to account for that - don't drive yourself crazy with somebody else's numbers. It has taken me awhile to make peace with weighing in the "150s" but everyone around me tells me I am just right even though I am only 5'5". 1 Daydra reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Canary Diamond 186 Posted August 10, 2013 Keep in mind if you have been really heavy that your bones and internal stuff weigh a little more. So, your goal weight might need to be a couple of pounds higher to account for that - don't drive yourself crazy with somebody else's numbers. It has taken me awhile to make peace with weighing in the "150s" but everyone around me tells me I am just right even though I am only 5'5". Please say more about this, CJ. Why would bones weigh more? Does the marrow gain density or something? I find this fascinating! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chimera 644 Posted August 10, 2013 What an awesome, awesome site! Thank you sooo much for the link to this - I struggle with dysmorphia terribly and cannot wrap my mind around what I look like - it is so nice to see the different sizes and shapes and see where I am 2 Old self and Canary Diamond reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TES 858 Posted August 10, 2013 It used to be believed that women who carried more weight had a higher BMD (bone mineral density) but a couple of recent studies actually have disproven that theory. With that said, I am also 5 foot 5, and I would be ecstatic at 150 lbs. And I have seen pics of CJ and she looks just right. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gamergirl 4,610 Posted August 10, 2013 Here's another site I have used a lot to stare at: http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.html 1 Canary Diamond reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zenandnow 514 Posted August 10, 2013 Here's another site I have used a lot to stare at: http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.html What a cool site! thanks for sharing! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amytug 996 Posted August 10, 2013 I love thos! I like looking at the women my size soi know I don't look completely funky. 1 Canary Diamond reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Canary Diamond 186 Posted August 11, 2013 Here's another site I have used a lot to stare at: http://www.cockeyed....ghtweight.html Thank you for the link, gamergirl! Very cool site. 1 gamergirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gamergirl 4,610 Posted August 11, 2013 I love thos! I like looking at the women my size soi know I don't look completely funky. You and me both! Yes I look fat but I may not be as disgustingly fat as I think I am. It's always nice to see those instead of stick thin, airbrushed models anyway. 1 TES reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Globetrotter 1,340 Posted August 11, 2013 I look at my before pics and I look in the mirror now, and I don't see a difference. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bethxxx 304 Posted August 11, 2013 Thank you so much for posting this!! I found this site (or something similar) about 3 or 4 years ago and was never able to find it again!!! So happy you posted this I've finally found it again 1 Canary Diamond reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Globetrotter 1,340 Posted August 11, 2013 this website still doesn't show my body, none of the women in my search have pronounced lower stomach pooches. but, it does give me something to work toward, when I put in my goal weight and saw how cute it looks! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites