gmanbat 5,889 Posted August 4, 2013 Don't chuck him out just yet. If he is a gourmet chef he could come in handy when solid foods are back on the menu. I used to laugh at those pitiful portions on the food network chef competition shows. They look about right now. 1 JourneyToLife reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
No game 14,437 Posted August 4, 2013 Lmao. Better wait till the pie is gone first. No, I want to eat the pie while I'm kicking him 1 JourneyToLife reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JourneyToLife 119 Posted August 5, 2013 Newbie, I'm sorry you're going through all of this. It is bad enough that the first week to 4 weeks are tough that you have to make these new adjustments to eating but, to have a passive aggressive chef on board who is not supporting you, you should kick 'em to the curb. I haven't had my surgery yet but, reading these forums are very helpful to me to know what to expect before my first appointment to the Nutritionist, psychologist, and Dr. Appointments. Stick with this forum and reach out as often as you can. Use your other resources such as your doctor and nutritionist, etc... Good luck to you and remember why you did the surgery and what you know the end result will be... Don't give up!!! 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElyQuint 446 Posted August 5, 2013 I def do not regret having had the surgery. It is very hard right now but not as hard as chemo, dialysis or immobility, all of which are on the alternative list. This lifestyle change was not his choice. Its being forced upon him and he will make his own decision in the end. Probably from the bottom of the sleigh riding hill when im at the top. I love him and hope he makes the climb. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites