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Hi All!

so I'm just wondering if anyone else is having a hard time reaching their goal weight? I was 257 when i had surgery and am now down to 168. My goal is 130 and I am having a hell of a time getting there.

I know part of the problem is that i have fallen back in to old habits and I am finally recognizing that. I feel like I'm the only one who can't seem to get it right!!

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You are not alone. Trust me, you are not. Get back to basics and stay strong :)

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Hi All!

so I'm just wondering if anyone else is having a hard time reaching their goal weight? I was 257 when i had surgery and am now down to 168. My goal is 130 and I am having a hell of a time getting there.

I know part of the problem is that i have fallen back in to old habits and I am finally recognizing that. I feel like I'm the only one who can't seem to get it right!!

I can't answer because I'm only 5 weeks out but I do have a question for you if you don't mind. How do you set a goal weight? Is that something your surgeon helps you come up with? My surgeon and I haven't discussed that yet and I was just wondering. Thanks!

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Go back to basics for two wks Protein Drinks 3 or 4 times a day Water exercise oh stop grazing u r not alone

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me and my surgeon never talked about it either, at my last check up he told me that i have lost 78 % of my weight(so I'm assuming the goal he had set for me is 150) however i set my own goal of 130 to 140....I am built like a brick **** house(big all over) and still have quite a bit of belly so i think another 40 pounds off of me would be great. but that is something you should really discuss with your doctor during your next check up!!

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hard time reaching their goal weight?

dpeeler28

I am sure you are NOT the only one that has some problems attaining goal within the year

but..................

good that you realize that you gotta get away from those bad habits :angry: (easier said than done!!)

1/2 the battle in fixing a problem - is acknowledging it, then running with it!!!!

you have 16 lbs til goal - you will get there!!!!

BUT

once you get there..............

your "battle" is going to continue

you will have to be strong and keep obeying the "rules" (Water et al)

most/all of us have been successful losing the weight time and time again

the hard part is keeping the weight off (i never could :( )

gotta stay strong - and eat and drink correctly!!!

ok - end of lecture ;)

you'll get to goal sooner than later

stop your bad/old habits - or else!!!!! ;)

happy surgiversary!!!!

81 lbs gone!!!!

keep up the good job

good luck

kathy

congrats

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thank you Kathy : )

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I know the closer I get the slower I lose, for sure. Hopefully, I can hit goal before a year, but I know it's going to take extra work.

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I really worry about this ..... Good luck

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You def aren't alone, I'm close to being two years and not at goal. For months and months I gain and lose the same 5 pounds, very annoying.

These last couple days I've changed my eating habits, Protein and low carb, I've already dropped a few pounds (Water weight I'm sure) but I'm determined to lose the rest of this weight. Wishing you the best of luck!

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You are absolutely not alone.

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I'm also two years out and want to lose another 10 pounds. I've stayed at 150 for over a year and a half now. It doesn't seem like anything is working. My daughter just mentioned today the Eating the 5:2 way and told me about this site, so I came looking. :rolleyes:

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You are not alone. I passed my one year anniversary in June. I'm down 78, which is totally awesome, but I have been in a stall for the last 4 months. However, I did have major shoulder surgery and was basically immobile for 2.5 months. I am trying to get back into the routine, and know that I need to rethink my eating habits. I have a lot more to lose (about 80 lbs), so I know I am the only one who can make it happen. Good luck, and keep up the good work!

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