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It felt great!! I posted a while back about my girl leaving me after 10 yrs because of my weight loss. Well in the state of Texas we were married and so I had to get a divorce. An actual divorce. She left the state and I had to do it alone and yes it was awkward but I did it. It wasn't something I really wanted under my belt but it is what it is. I am now at 160 and I feel great and I am ready to move on. So thanks to my friends on here for your support :);):P:D

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Sorry you had to go through this.....but love your attitude!!!!

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CONGRATS ! YOU LOOK GREAT!

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Yea, congrats on finding the strength to do what you needed to do! I'm from TX and I had no idea you oud be considered married ithout being married.

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Good for you! You may have lost the weight, but she's the clear loser in this. I hope all that $h!t on the table is hers, right before you threw it from a tall building.

Do you have any before pics?

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Well I did have a camera with most of my before pics and middle pics but she took the camera. I told her she could have the old me if that's what she wanted. The new me she will never have. Here is a cam pic I took a year before surgery.

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Good for you! Great attitude!

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Awesome job!! I am so glad you did something, rather than choose to do nothing. ;)

You sound like you you are in a much better place with your decision!!

Well done.

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