Bellanthin 112 Posted July 31, 2013 Im not sure if im allowed to ask this lol but does anyone know how long u have to wsit to have sex Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aries 95 Posted July 31, 2013 most people here will say "as soon as you're up for it." just keep in mind that you should keep it simple and stay away from the rough stuff 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aroundhky 1,174 Posted July 31, 2013 Of course you can ask and it often comes up here. It's a factor that has to be considered as well. My Dr told me when I felt up to it, to go for it.............I'm still waiting. Just kidding on the still waiting part. He did say to start out reasonably and not doing anything too crazy or strenuous. I've heard other sleevers saying that their Dr told them to wait a few weeks. 1 ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LipstickLady 25,682 Posted July 31, 2013 I waited about 5 days. My doctor's words were that he didn't operate "down there" so whenever I was ready. 2 BlessedBeyondMeasure2012 and ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bluto 117 Posted July 31, 2013 Do what your doctor says ... mine didn't say anything so day two in the hospital seemed like the perfect chance to make sure everything was still working correctly :-) 3 Fabsfluff, BlessedBeyondMeasure2012 and soocalchic reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CorvetteGirl 78 Posted July 31, 2013 My doc says about 3 weeks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gmanbat 5,889 Posted July 31, 2013 Try at least once a year....Oh...you're not 64..never mind. 6 fp9107, ProudGrammy, gamergirl and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RickM 1,752 Posted July 31, 2013 Most hospital based nurses agree that you should wait until you are out of the hospital. Beyond that, it's up to individual doctors' opinions which vary from "when you feel like it" to some weeks. Basically, it's down to being able to do things without distress - you probably don't want to be swinging from the rafters, but any positioning that accomplishes things in comfort is fine. 1 gamergirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ramirelek 59 Posted July 31, 2013 My doctor tild me about 10 days Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stacechase 251 Posted July 31, 2013 Most hospital based nurses agree that you should wait until you are out of the hospital. Beyond that' date=' it's up to individual doctors' opinions which vary from "when you feel like it" to some weeks. Basically, it's down to being able to do things without distress - you probably don't want to be swinging from the rafters, but any positioning that accomplishes things in comfort is fine.[/quote'] LOL, I would hope that people would wait until they're out of the hospital!!! 3 NewSetOfCurves, ProudGrammy and Bellanthin reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlessedBeyondMeasure2012 296 Posted July 31, 2013 My NP was suprised at my two weeks when I asked that same question. Her response was "you mean you're not already?!?!" 4 NewSetOfCurves, gmanbat, Bluto and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ProudGrammy 8,322 Posted July 31, 2013 Try at least once a year....Oh...you're not 64..never mind. gmanbat LMAO this 59 1/2 year YOUNG proud grammy is right there with ya!!!!!! welllll......... kathy 1 gmanbat reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites