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So many things are going through my mind.. Am I making the right decision ? What if something goes wrong? Can I just diet?? Did anyone go through this? It doesn't help I am on this awe full liquid preop diet.. I am starving

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I had the same exact thoughts that U are having. I went from lap band to sleeve on 7/17/13. I am 30 and a mom of 3. I was terrified leading up o surgery. I was making myself nuts. Thinking morbid thoughts like what my house would be like without me. CRAZINESS!! Then I just prayed about it and asked my husband if I was doing the right thing. I got reassurance from god and my husband. You just have to try to push the negative thoughts out of your mind and think positive thoughts about how slim and healthy u will be a year from now. You will be just fine!!

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I am a hot mess.. I think I am going through mild depression over this. Do you think that is normal?how was the surgery worst or better then you thought?

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I am a hot mess.. I think I am going through mild depression over this. Do you think that is normal?how was the surgery worst or better then you thought?

Hi, I have my surgery a week ago today and I know it's very early but this is way more of an ordeal than I was lead to believe. So far it's been a huge struggle with several complications (infection, pneumonia), although purported the operation went well, it's been so hard. Now I am also feeling shaky and uneasy all the time.

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So many things are going through my mind.. Am I making the right decision ? What if something goes wrong? Can I just diet?? Did anyone go through this? It doesn't help I am on this awe full liquid preop diet.. I am starving

I'm also having surgery August 6th. And yes all these things are running through my mind too. I'm glad I've told several people I am having the surgery, because I feel like I might chicken out otherwise. I haven't been hungry, but I still want food. I need to find a new hobby!

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