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Well, this week has bin a rollercoaster of emotions for me, on Monday I found out that I got my new job but not at the pay in wanted it at. (bummer)

Tuesday I had to start packing to move by the 6th of August. (uggg)

Wednesday I found out that my room mate didn’t have all her rent money and could not pay me untel the middle of next month But she could pay off the rest of last months rent that she owes me. (thank God)

Thursday I went and applied for my lone (for the third time) for the surgery. And packed up some more. ( Did I minten that I hate packing)

Friday I found out that I was denied for the lone for the third time after working for the last month and half to clean up my credit.

I know that these aren’t big thing and that I shouldn’t weri about them except for the lone but they are to me.

(The Question) Dos any one have any suggestions on where I can look for foundational add. My incurrence will not pay for this and I can’t change incurrence comaney

Thanks for letting me talk.

Ellen

P.s. I hop next week gos better

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(((hugs))) Ellen... I sure hope that things get better soon! Good luck with your move and your new job!

Darcy

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Ellen,

Hope your life settles down a bit once you have moved and worked at the new job a bit. Will you get insurance benefits at the new job? My insurance didn't pay either so I had to go to Mexico. I never would have been able to if it hadn't been for my father in law helping me with a loan. My credit isn't sterling either and I couldn't get a loan on my own. I have waited a decade to somehow be able to afford wls. You may have to wait awhile or who knows? Maybe something will pop up at some point. Wish you the best and hope your next week goes better. Teresa

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