kailie 238 Posted July 15, 2013 20 mins late to the hospital... Laying in my pre op "room". sitting here alone balling my eyes out! Didn't get to say good bye to my baby boy like I wanted to and I'm a wreck!!! 1 honeylove reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HalfpastAmazing33 9 Posted July 15, 2013 Everything is going to be ok, your baby boy knows you love him. I don't know what kind of phone you have but maybe you can make him a short video saying you love him before you go into the OR. Praying everything goes smoothly for you. 1 onedaycloser reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bronco0605 135 Posted July 15, 2013 The last time I had surgery (for something else of course). I had to drive myself to the hospital 2 hours away because my husband was sick. It sucked, I was alone until my mom was able to get there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michbrecc 31 Posted July 15, 2013 I could imagine how you feel, I am getting my sleeve in 8/6 and am a ball of nerves. My mind is racing, I wish you luck and just know we are all here to support you in anyway possible. 1 khicks reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sara84911 3 Posted July 15, 2013 I'll be headed to the hospital in a few hours!! I'm a bucket of nerves!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michbrecc 31 Posted July 15, 2013 Think positive, that is what I am doing. It is the "not knowing" that is killing you, That is what I am worried about. Everyone has a different experince, but my feeling is that in the end it is a new life and a new challenge. Great days are ahead Good luck check in when you can Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muhsi1 19 Posted July 15, 2013 Aaw shame, that is terrible but you are doing it for yourself and your baby so you can have many years ahead. Lots of love and good wishes. Let us know how you are after. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VSG_Barbie 65 Posted July 15, 2013 Good luck to you both, Kailie and Sara. You will be fine! Kailie, just remember you're doing this in part so you can be a happier, more energetic mommy for your little guy. (Making an assumption here, cause its one of my reasons.) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aliekat55 157 Posted July 17, 2013 was just discharged from the hospital. had surgery monday and stayed an extra night because I felt poorly. the best advice i can give is that the turn around for me was rapid. Monday and tues day morining were horrible and had push very hard to walk. then tuesday afternoon it eased up but not enough to go home ( if I had lived within an hour i would have left) but voila, just as the surgeon said, for some of us right around the 48 hour mark something changes. For me it was around 40 hours, the gas pain dissipated, i rested better, i took in broth and Jello like they were the best food I have ever eaten then this morning i was ready to go. I am so thankful to all of you that mentioned how the first day or tow there can be buyer's remorse because I could not beleive what I had done to myself. but now I am fully motivated, happy with the process and as I am waiting at the airport for my flight the number of smells from the eateries are flowing through my nose. a week ago i had not noticed them, now they are intense. yet although my eyes and memory feels a slight pull, i am having no problem ignoring them. For those of you needed a self pay option and live near chalotte NC give dr. heider a consideration, not as cheap as going to Mexico but the most reasonable I found in the east coast, much cheaper than BARIX and only slightly more than the numbers i see in Houston/DAllas. But more important, excellent care and concern. Interesting sidelight, I am a true purple RAvens fan and i had my going home tshirt. my doctor is apparently a die hard steelers fan. 1 faifie reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JProx 161 Posted July 17, 2013 Welcome to the loser side!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kailie 238 Posted July 17, 2013 was just discharged from the hospital. had surgery monday and stayed an extra night because I felt poorly. the best advice i can give is that the turn around for me was rapid. Monday and tues day morining were horrible and had push very hard to walk. then tuesday afternoon it eased up but not enough to go home ( if I had lived within an hour i would have left) but voila, just as the surgeon said, for some of us right around the 48 hour mark something changes. For me it was around 40 hours, the gas pain dissipated, i rested better, i took in broth and Jello like they were the best food I have ever eaten then this morning i was ready to go. I am so thankful to all of you that mentioned how the first day or tow there can be buyer's remorse because I could not beleive what I had done to myself. but now I am fully motivated, happy with the process and as I am waiting at the airport for my flight the number of smells from the eateries are flowing through my nose. a week ago i had not noticed them, now they are intense. yet although my eyes and memory feels a slight pull, i am having no problem ignoring them. For those of you needed a self pay option and live near chalotte NC give dr. heider a consideration, not as cheap as going to Mexico but the most reasonable I found in the east coast, much cheaper than BARIX and only slightly more than the numbers i see in Houston/DAllas. But more important, excellent care and concern. Interesting sidelight, I am a true purple RAvens fan and i had my going home tshirt. my doctor is apparently a die hard steelers fan. Thanks for hijacking my thread... 1 mattsbelly reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mattsbelly 76 Posted July 18, 2013 Thanks for hijacking my thread... Total hijacking Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michbrecc 31 Posted July 19, 2013 I was thinking about you, hope you are healing well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
birdmadgirl 154 Posted July 19, 2013 I dont think she was hijacking. she was giving you her experience to make you feel better. I thought it was sweet. 3 SheWins1, gamergirl and HeatherL reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aliekat55 157 Posted July 19, 2013 if the hijacking is refering to my post; most sorry. i am old and simply participating in these settings is a tour de force for me. i had not even known a thread could be highjacked or why it would matter since these things are so ephemeral anyway, in a week they are outdated. 2 gamergirl and SheWins1 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites