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I can't wait to see how different sex after losing weight is .. I'm not trying to rush it I'm just anxious . It felt nearly impossible for me on top and now I'm excited to see the changes .

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It is exciting. I've lost 75 pounds so far and have to say the sex is amazing. My fiancé is very pleased lol. You should be excited. Also I feel more confident about myself during sex. How far out are you?

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It is exciting. I've lost 75 pounds so far and have to say the sex is amazing. My fiancé is very pleased lol. You should be excited. Also I feel more confident about myself during sex. How far out are you?

Awe yay good for you ! And congrats on losing that much . I'm not far out enough to have sex .. 3 days post op . I do believe I feel great for only 3 days out . Can't wait for the discomfort to go away and see some changes :)

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Definitely not TMI. We're all adults here.....well for the most part ;) and sex is a valid topic. Check out the powder Room Forum (Ladies) and The Man Room (Mens) for some other times this topic has come up. I personally am a big fan seeing it addressed here as well.

There are changes that do take place after WLS that do affect ones sex life. Some of the obvious changes are the physical differences but there are also emotional and psychological changes that take place too. Can't wait to see the response. My post WLS experience with this topic is that it has been a great time! Getting used to the "new equipment" (my wife's term) has been a welcome bye product of the process.

Oh and the other sex question that comes up is how long after do you have to wait? Me, I made sure that I was out of the recovery room first. ;)

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Oh it will fly by. I'm 3 and a half months out. And lucky you! I was stuck on my couch for a week. My fiancé had to literally lift me up lol. But I was back to work three weeks later. Awesome on that and good luck to you (:

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We waited a week and a half lol

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Oh it will fly by. I'm 3 and a half months out. And lucky you! I was stuck on my couch for a week. My fiancé had to literally lift me up lol. But I was back to work three weeks later. Awesome on that and good luck to you (:

I go to cosmetology school .. I'm hoping I can return Monday ! Just to get hours not to do any major stuff at all . Good luck to you too !

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even though i had been told to wait about 4 weeks.....i did at 3 weeks :unsure: but i will say i was a little sore in the abdominal area....(AND i moved the wrong way and it hurt!)

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