ShayLeigh 62 Posted June 30, 2013 I have my date and so excited and scared! My biggest fear is that I will fail!! I know that seems so silly, but when you have tried everything...you start to doubt that you really can be healthier and thinner! I am committed to following dr.s orders per and post op, but again just so scared of failing? Is anyone else sruggling with this? I am 5'2" and currently weigh 264 (BMi 48). I look forward to the day I can post per and post op photos! 1 MaryW1965 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashlee K 46 Posted June 30, 2013 I am the day before u and I have the same doubts. Scared that when I wake up from surgery I will think " what the hell did I just do to myself". But than I think thousands of people in our same shoes have done this so can we. Good luck 1 MaryW1965 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryW1965 8 Posted June 30, 2013 I am scheduled for July 17th & am having sortof second thoughts...normal or am i letting people that care about me get to me? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDust 585 Posted June 30, 2013 I am scheduled for July 17th & am having sortof second thoughts...normal or am i letting people that care about me get to me? It's very normal, even for those of us who aren't getting negative feedback. I'm 2 days away from my surgery and I still have my moments of "do I really want to do this? I'm losing so well on my pre op diet. .." Ultimately, I remind myself that I've been here before, and I need the support of the restriction to keep me in check for the long run. Sent from my Samsung Galaxy Note 2 using VST 1 MaryW1965 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryW1965 8 Posted July 2, 2013 Thinking of you...good luck : ) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryW1965 8 Posted July 3, 2013 I have my date and so excited and scared! My biggest fear is that I will fail!! I know that seems so silly' date=' but when you have tried everything...you start to doubt that you really can be healthier and thinner! I am committed to following dr.s orders per and post op, but again just so scared of failing? Is anyone else sruggling with this? I am 5'2" and currently weigh 264 (BMi 48). I look forward to the day I can post per and post op photos![/quote'] I have the samw fear...but we'll be okay!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryW1965 8 Posted July 13, 2013 It's very normal' date=' even for those of us who aren't getting negative feedback. I'm 2 days away from my surgery and I still have my moments of "do I really want to do this? I'm losing so well on my pre op diet. .." Ultimately, I remind myself that I've been here before, and I need the support of the restriction to keep me in check for the long run. Sent from my Samsung Galaxy Note 2 using VST[/quote'] How r u doing???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bksexymama 15 Posted July 13, 2013 I'm also having surgery on July 18. I'm nervous, scared and excited all at the same time. 3 MaryW1965, Dannipo and Byrdii reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDust 585 Posted July 13, 2013 How r u doing???? I doing great, thanks! Just finishing up my full liquids phase and getting ready to move to soft foods this weekend. Very little pain left - a small amount in my left shoulder and my incisions are still a bit tender. The weight is dropping slowly but surely, between .5 and 1.5 lbs per day. I'm getting at least 60 grams of Protein and 60 oz of Water a day at this point, though I think the Protein will get harder as I get into the denser protein. Sent from my Samsung Galaxy Note 2 using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryW1965 8 Posted July 13, 2013 Do u weigh every day? Have u been weak and shaky at all...my fear Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDust 585 Posted July 13, 2013 Do u weigh every day? Have u been weak and shaky at all...my fear I weigh every day, but if you would be inclined to worry about stalling I would recommend doing it no more than once a week, or even less often than that. I'm a geek and my husband and I are both into tracking stats and identifying trends. I'm also not upset when the numbers bounce a small amount or stall, as I know from past experiences. I was a tiny bit shaky the first day or two because I was on Clear liquids, but once I switched to full liquids on day 4 I was no longer shaky. I am still a little easily tired, but that is the result of having major surgery, and my body is still using a lot of energy to heal. I could have easily returned to work last Monday, though. I'm just going to bed a little earlier Sent from my Samsung Galaxy Note 2 using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShayLeigh 62 Posted July 14, 2013 Thanks for the replies! I am so excited and getting my house in order. I have been on the pre diet and have only lost a few pound, but very happy with that! Is everyone ready? How much time are you taking off of work? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShayLeigh 62 Posted July 14, 2013 How r u? Getting excited! Where are you located? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryW1965 8 Posted July 15, 2013 I am excited but very nauseated and have had a headache for days..i can't believe surgery already here on Weds. It's been a long 6 months of waiting! I am in Arizona, and have 4 weeks off work. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites