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I really find this so sad that this young girl is now retracting what she said because she feels some sort of guilt over coming out and telling what happened. It is obvious that the story is true and like many victims of sexual harassment she is being made to feel like it is her fault. I really feel for the OP' date=' I understand that she is an adult and she was not forced into this but this was a complete abuse of power on the doctors part, taking advantage of someone's vulnerability. This guy is pathetic and will not stop what he is doing because what was said has now been retracted. I really hope that his behavior does not escalate into something worse.[/quote']

Please tell me how she isn't at fault when she slept with him 4 days after meeting him.....she is a grown woman and knew what she was doing. She is upset it didn't turn into a relationship like she wanted and in turn could have completely screwed this mans career. Ya, he shouldn't be a douchebag sleeping with different women while in a relationship but that doesn't mean he should potentially lose his job because neither of them could keep it on their pants. Makes me wonder how many other guys she has jumped into bed with and then screwed up their life when it didn't pan out.

Latin people are generally more flirty than Americans. Just because someone is flirty doesn't mean they are a womanizer. She was the one that allowed it to go farther than it should have. Acting like it was sexual harassment is ridiculous. Should he have known better than to take it further with a current patient? Ya. Should she have not slept with some random guy she didn't know? Yup. None of us have seen the correspondence between them and don't really know who pursued who. They are both at fault. Just because he can't keep his junk in his pants doesn't mean he is a bad dr (everything I've read about him states otherwise) he is just a bad person personally. It's none of anyone's business what he does in his personal life as long as he isn't raping women and forcing them into things that they arent choosing to do.

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Please tell me how she isn't at fault when she slept with him 4 days after meeting him.....she is a grown woman and knew what she was doing. She is upset it didn't turn into a relationship like she wanted and in turn could have completely screwed this mans career. Ya, he shouldn't be a douchebag sleeping with different women while in a relationship but that doesn't mean he should potentially lose his job because neither of them could keep it on their pants. Makes me wonder how many other guys she has jumped into bed with and then screwed up their life when it didn't pan out.

Latin people are generally more flirty than Americans. Just because someone is flirty doesn't mean they are a womanizer. She was the one that allowed it to go farther than it should have. Acting like it was sexual harassment is ridiculous. Should he have known better than to take it further with a current patient? Ya. Should she have not slept with some random guy she didn't know? Yup. None of us have seen the correspondence between them and don't really know who pursued who. They are both at fault. Just because he can't keep his junk in his pants doesn't mean he is a bad dr (everything I've read about him states otherwise) he is just a bad person personally. It's none of anyone's business what he does in his personal life as long as he isn't raping women and forcing them into things that they arent choosing to do.

Not talking about any " flirty Latin" he was her attending Physician entering her hotel room.. Alone, and preying on whomever takes his bait. It's the perfect meat shop for the WOMANIZER.

I considered Dr Garcia an excellent Dr, but if he condones this behavior then I've changed my mind. Simple deduction.

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Now that Dr. Garcia himself is looking into it I hope we can let this go.

I also hope, regardless of the outcome and regardless which version is true, that Blindsided speak with a counselor to help her cope with what has obviously been an overwhelmingly emotional experience.

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I feel by now a lot of ppl have figure out who the Op is. Please know you will still get support here. Don't be afraid. If you need someone to talk to PM me. Or any of your supporters. We can be there for you. No questions asked. I have a daughter if she needed help I would hope someone would be there for her. Sorry I made the comment about Karma. This CRAP sucks!!!! No one deserves this.

Hmm I mustbe far out of the loop. I don't have a clue who the op is,would've given more credit to her story to know who it really is. IMO posting such claims under a pseudo name looks sketchy

Eta: nvm figured it out, wasnt hard to do. Op fails to mention what. She really did (or who...) day 4 after surgery in one of her post op posts...

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I've read every post of this thread..this "novella" is a shame on all fronts. This thread is a serious turn off. This is the first and only forum I have joined hoping to find information support and even some fun. Unfortunately there are a handful of drama queens, attention seekers, and control freaks that are all over this site 24/7 pontificating their absolute judgements. It's disgusting..disheartening and negative. Unsubscribing. Good luck to those who have helped me immensely. I will be looking to other sites for support.

This is the ONLY thing I have read here that makes any sense. What a jacked up thread. Signing off this forum for drama queens and will find real support somewhere else. And I am standing by the doctor and the rest of his team on this one. Hasn't changed my opinion one bit. I had surgery there, loved the care, and found the whole team to be caring professionals.

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I wanted to update... Dr. Garcia has finished his investigation of these issues and is no longer using "dr" Luna.

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Guess I won't be meeting him next month. Hope he is replaced by someone attentive and caring who will keep his hands to himself. :)

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I wanted to update... Dr. Garcia has finished his investigation of these issues and is no longer using "dr" Luna.

What does that mean for people who were scheduled to have their surgery with him in the next few days or so... I would be ticked but then again he's probably just changing his name to "Dr De La Cruz" and would be working at the same doggone place.

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Dr. Garcia is the surgeon. So it will mean the same care that he was giving before. Which by all accounts, most everyone is pleased with.

Luna just assisted...

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well, screw it, lets out the hussy.

and the perp is....... rollargirl!

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lauraven, have you ever thought about minding your own business? youre a bossy one, eh?

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well' date=' screw it, lets out the hussy.

and the perp is....... rollargirl!

lauraven, have you ever thought about minding your own business? youre a bossy one, eh?

Not sure who your calling a hussy? Roller girl?

Why her? Nice try though...

I was ASKED to put this out there...

Sorry that you have problems with it

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well' date=' screw it, lets out the hussy.

and the perp is....... rollargirl!

lauraven, have you ever thought about minding your own business? youre a bossy one, eh?

Oh and thanks for joining just now to say this :P

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Here comes the circus...Idk why I pay for cable when the people here are beyond entertaining lol

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Thank you Laura for finishjng your investigation..great job..smh...the guy id out of a job because of a chick that had no damn proof and started spreading rumors just as fast as she spread her legs..

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