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I've lost 46 lbs. I'm short and I'm latina. I have a lot of curves. Lol and HAD a big booty for which all my family knew me for. I also have big hips. Well lately my pants look nasty on me. My booty has officially disappeared. The only thing holding my jeans are my hips. I'm scared of going shoping for a new pair. What if I'm the same size and its just in my head?

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It's not in your head. Get the new pants. And if you want a Bodacious Booty, squats are your friend. I've got a low BMI now, but I still got an A** thanks to lots of walking and squats.

Lynda

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Well the butt and boobs have lots of fat and usually go first..that's not to say all of it will go and once you start losing more in you stomach and other places it might pop out again :) I'm black and fat and have no ass so I'm hoping dropping all this weight will make my butt more visible lol cause its pretty freakin flat and wide lol

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I totally agree. My butt was nice to me. I've never had anyone say anything negative about it, until now. My mom tells me that my jeans are Sagging in the butt area lol. It's Definitely not a pretty site

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Lol. Thanks. So when can we do more hard core excersice I'm 6 weeks out.

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booty has disappeared

JoannLz

:lol: :D

I know the feeling about an "absent" booty!!!!

wore my old jeans forever through my weight loss process

didn't go out of the house, retired

in other words i couldn't really see a difference in my body/progress

clothes showing they were too big

of course i eventually took note of changes as time went by

one day after my shower i looked in the mirror..........

turned around and said something like....

OMG - my tushy is gone :o

unfortunately the remnants are all the flab hanging down :(

corrected ok when i wear clothes and DH is the ownly one that sees me like that

for other reasons, he "likes my new body" ;) - booty or not!!!

my butt and pancakes look alike !!!! :lol:

thats ok, if that is my worst problem i'm dealing with - i'm happy

all the below problems are gone post WLS

diabetes/insulin/meds

high blood pressure

c-pap

energy is wonderful

what else is gone?

my low self-esteem

i "gained" ;) confidence

and found happiness :)

what a wonderful world !!!! :)

kathy

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Well I have never had a booty and since I lost weight it is even worse. haha The worst part (since it has never been my best asset) is that my tailbone hurts bad now. I have had to purchase a pillow to take places with me to sit on. Thinking about getting some of those panties that make you look like you got a bigger one! haahaa!

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My butt disappeared at first too. But with squats, lunges, running, and overall fitness it's never looked perkier! You'll be fine if you put a little work in!

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I noticed that too my tail bone hurts ! I laughed the other day really hard. Cause I sat down and I actually felt my bone touch the chair . Lol.. silly me.

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I must be in the minority. My booty is huge and I can't wait to see it go!!!

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I can relate I had a donk and it's gone which is weird for me I always had a donk I got it from my momma ..it's a culture thing in my marriage my husband love the donk I guess imma have to buy one ..lol

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I noticed that too my tail bone hurts ! I laughed the other day really hard. Cause I sat down and I actually felt my bone touch the chair . Lol.. silly me.

My tailbone has been hurting for over a month lol I hope I start getting used to it.

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