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My friend from an earlier predicament (WTF, am I wrong? thread) just called to see if I was still mad about the incident. I told her Yes!!! And proceeded to tell her some of the things I was told by other sleevers in my own words. She told me that I say that because I'm married and have someone to warm my bed at night. She said shes over fourty and doesn't have that luxury to be so picky! I said very bluntly well no D*ck is worth my self respect and I'm married because my husband knows my worth! (Just like I know his) I also told her she needs to work on her before she worries about who's going to warm her dam bed at night. She hung up on me. I dont get it shes mad at me because I wouldn't lower my standers (granted I'm married) but again, WTF????

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Are you guys actually arguing about a scum bag with a horrible pick up line to you, a married woman???

I don't get it? I mean I read the last thing (he is gross) but your friend is grosser for defending his position and WTF does it matter what he said or how he said it?? you are married?

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Are you guys actually arguing about a scum bag with a horrible pick up line to you' date=' a married woman???

I don't get it? I mean I read the last thing (he is gross) but your friend is grosser for defending his position and WTF does it matter what he said or how he said it?? you are married?

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Yes I'm married. But I dont let anyone disrespect me period! My point is why because I'm fat I have to put up with peoples put downs! Thats what pisses me off!

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Are you guys actually arguing about a scum bag with a horrible pick up line to you' date=' a married woman???

I don't get it? I mean I read the last thing (he is gross) but your friend is grosser for defending his position and WTF does it matter what he said or how he said it?? you are married?

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I dont understand why women think they have to settle?? And why someone thinks they can talk to women like this. Married or not! I'm also upset becauae someone I thought a friend is really not and would even think I'm into that type of b/s.

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I think your friend has some serious issues with self esteem loneliness and perhaps jealousy that it was you he "talked".

As for him? I wouldn't give him a second thought he is nothing to you in your life. Not even worth being upset with.

I don't know how well you know your friend but she sounds lost and defeated :(

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I think your friend has some serious issues with self esteem loneliness and perhaps jealousy that it was you he "talked".

As for him? I wouldn't give him a second thought he is nothing to you in your life. Not even worth being upset with.

I don't know how well you know your friend but she sounds lost and defeated :(

Him I could care less about. My friend is what has me so upset. We have been friends since 2nd grade . She divorced 3 years ago she hasnt been the same since. I only see her maybe once a year. I want to help her but dont know how.

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