Ms skinniness 3,003 Posted July 2, 2013 This message has been deleted by Susan. Hummmmm, did I say something wrong? was it offensive? this is a little confusing to me...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
No game 14,437 Posted July 2, 2013 Hummmmm' date=' did I say something wrong? was it offensive? this is a little confusing to me......[/quote'] I would say there are far more offensive things being said on other threads where I see people with pack dog mentalities going after each other.. But with your comment I think that Susan is just asserting the fact that women are not allowed to post on the "mans forum"?? 1 Ms skinniness reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms skinniness 3,003 Posted July 2, 2013 I would say there are far more offensive things being said on other threads where I see people with pack dog mentalities going after each other.. But with your comment I think that Susan is just asserting the fact that women are not allowed to post on the "mans forum"?? Laura your totally right.....but I do find that to be a controlling issue for her...... Where's OTR? Miss him, he was very funny and playful......Now that we put it that way, then why are newbies posting on the veteran's forum? food for thought.... Hey guys sorry to interrupt your conversation.........I do love studded condoms though! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
No game 14,437 Posted July 2, 2013 OTR has taken a break from VST and no longer moderates... But I personally hope he comes back soon! Yes the vets forum is a free for all these days! I miss the good old days when I would get yelled at for being there 1 Ms skinniness reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
*susan* 1,709 Posted July 2, 2013 Laura your totally right.....but I do find that to be a controlling issue for her...... Where's OTR? Miss him, he was very funny and playful...... Now that we put it that way, then why are newbies posting on the veteran's forum? food for thought.... Hey guys sorry to interrupt your conversation.........I do love studded condoms though! I'm terribly sorry that you find my enforcing our forum rules to be a "controlling issue" for me. However, the men's forum was created as a specific forum for men to post issues directly related to them and to be able to discuss them with other men; as was the powder room created for specific women's issues. While you may not see them posting it directly here, for fear of retribution from certain members, we are often contacted privately from members who are afraid to post in the gender specific forums because very often members of the other gender join in and it ends up turning into a big joke. Now, perhaps you will look at previous messages in this post, and see that Alex, VST Founder, also deleted several female posts. Would you like to address him as controlling too? My suggestion would be that if you have an opinion about the way this site is administered, you contact myself or Alex personally, as opposed to turning a thread into your own personal agenda. There are only two forums on this entire site that are gender specific. You are permitted to post on every other forum here. Why is it so difficult for people to respect these boundaries? Alex and myself cannot be everywhere at once, but when members report a post, we respond. And, we are responding to this thread because members are reporting that females are posting in the male only forum. 2 Recycled and DeezJeanz reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms skinniness 3,003 Posted July 2, 2013 I'm terribly sorry that you find my enforcing our forum rules to be a "controlling issue" for me. However, the men's forum was created as a specific forum for men to post issues directly related to them and to be able to discuss them with other men; as was the powder room created for specific women's issues. While you may not see them posting it directly here, for fear of retribution from certain members, we are often contacted privately from members who are afraid to post in the gender specific forums because very often members of the other gender join in and it ends up turning into a big joke. Now, perhaps you will look at previous messages in this post, and see that Alex, VST Founder, also deleted several female posts. Would you like to address him as controlling too? My suggestion would be that if you have an opinion about the way this site is administered, you contact myself or Alex personally, as opposed to turning a thread into your own personal agenda. There are only two forums on this entire site that are gender specific. You are permitted to post on every other forum here. Why is it so difficult for people to respect these boundaries? Alex and myself cannot be everywhere at once, but when members report a post, we respond. And, we are responding to this thread because members are reporting that females are posting in the male only forum. Susan, I have reread my post and I owe you an apology.....I over reacted to my post being deleted and there was no explanation for the deletion. That is not my finest moment here......I understand the reason after your explanation in the first paragraph. I hope you can accept my humble apology.......Namaste 1 Recycled reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
*susan* 1,709 Posted July 2, 2013 No worries, it's all good! 1 Ms skinniness reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RickM 1,752 Posted July 2, 2013 Maybe this thread should be deleted as it is too tempting to keep the women off it. Lol! Not nearly as tempting as the post op penis size thread which fits, uh, hand in glove with this one. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fiddleman 4,376 Posted July 3, 2013 Not nearly as tempting as the post op penis size thread which fits' date=' uh, hand in glove with this one.[/quote'] Hahahaha... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigerbelle 328 Posted July 3, 2013 I am scared to make this post because I am female, but it's not about the thread topic but the last several posts...I am on another message board, and there is a gender specific forum that is only for females (I think it's called the pink forum or something like that)...it's like a private forum that you have to ask permission to "join"...no one who is not a member approved by a moderator can post in the forum or even see the posts made...would that be something that would work here or is possible with the software? I only suggest it since that way people wouldn't be afraid to post in the gender specific forum because of lack of privacy ...just something to consider Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fiddleman 4,376 Posted July 3, 2013 Nevermind, too far off topic. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigerbelle 328 Posted July 4, 2013 Nevermind, too far off topic. well....start a NEW topic!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cubbies76 132 Posted July 4, 2013 There are only two forums on this entire site that are gender specific. You are permitted to post on every other forum here. Why is it so difficult for people to respect these boundaries? Here, here! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buplee 556 Posted July 30, 2013 Maybe this thread should be deleted as it is too tempting to keep the women off it. Lol! It sure seems that way. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
