Thesaurophile 7 Posted June 12, 2013 My boyfriend was initially resistant because he didn't know my history of trying and failing in various forms. We had basically the same heated argument it sounds like you guys had cue crying and "I don't want to talk to you right now"s and all that good stuff. I was finally able to just sit down with him and explain my previous struggles and tell him that although I appreciated where his concern was coming from, it wasn't necessary and right now I just needed his support. Once he realized the decision hadn't just come out of nowhere he's been SUPER supportive, and even went to my pre-op classes with me so he knows as much as I do about what's gonna happen in the upcoming months! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites