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Since I'm not hungry sometimes i forget that others need to eat. This afternoon my husband kept taking about going out to eat and i couldn't understand why he already wanted to go to eat. It was 12:00!

I've found this to be true, too! We were recently on vacation, and I swear, that's all they wanted to do was eat! It takes so much time (and money when you are vacationing in expensive cities) that is just sort of pissed me off. I'm really happy I'm not worried about eating all the time anymore. It made me a little sad, too, because they are young adults/teens, and I made them that way, thinking the thrill of the trip was to find the best food. They don't know any other way.

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I stay home I keep the house clean, and not with cleaning ladies! I do it! When I cook we have two older kids that complain half the time and they don't eat what I cook anymore so it's frustrating.

But Yes they all ate steak tonight oh and banana bread ( and now I'm mad because i ate some banana bread) My dinner? Will be yogurt, it's hot!

Edit;

sorry for my rant.. But I find it hard sometimes the whole food thing and other people.

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I wish I could... Like he is seriously mad right now

0_o It all started because he wanted tri tip and potatoes for dinner tonight (the skinny bastard)

And it's f**king 90 degrees!!! So then he's like you know you don't work you could at least treat this ( the house kids and him) like a full time job...

I'm so mad and we never actually fight that I'm beside myself right now!!

He's getting his meat and potatoes and like a good "housewife" I just noticed 4 overripe bananas and I'm making banana bread too.

Ok I hear the 1950's calling me gotta go..

Ps I'm REALLY MAD! And I think hurt... But mostly MAD.

Hope you didn't forget your heels... and pearl necklace too

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So funny! I was just thinking about this tonight when my son asked me if we were going to eat anything tonight (it was 9:00).

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I wish I could... Like he is seriously mad right now

0_o It all started because he wanted tri tip and potatoes for dinner tonight (the skinny bastard)

And it's f**king 90 degrees!!! So then he's like you know you don't work you could at least treat this ( the house kids and him) like a full time job...

I'm so mad and we never actually fight that I'm beside myself right now!!

He's getting his meat and potatoes and like a good "housewife" I just noticed 4 overripe bananas and I'm making banana bread too.

Ok I hear the 1950's calling me gotta go..

Ps I'm REALLY MAD! And I think hurt... But mostly MAD.

I went on strike for this once, too. Went away with my bestie for a three day weekend and made the family swear not to help. Didn't precook, no laundry, didn't clean or grocery shop. No sex for the weeks before, either.

He figured out how much I do pretty fast.

I go away with my friends 2 times a year for four day weekends to keep it fresh, too.

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I went on strike for this once' date=' too. Went away with my bestie for a three day weekend and made the family swear not to help. Didn't precook, no laundry, didn't clean or grocery shop. No sex for the weeks before, either.

He figured out how much I do pretty fast.

I go away with my friends 2 times a year for four day weekends to keep it fresh, too.[/quote']

I think that's what I need to do... He goes on hiking trips and leaves me here. I need to go out of town and see how they like it :)

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I try to be the best husband and father I can possibly be and never take my wife for granted. That is the reason we have been together for three decades. I think the bulk of you need to "train" (for lack of a better word) your husbands to be better no matter how much you love them.

I think the strike thing works because sometimes you need to shock the person back to reality. However, I do not agree with with using sex as a weapon, but that may be the counselor/therapist in me. That can sometimes cause a backlash that neither party wants to deal with. That is just my two cents as a guy.

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I think that's what I need to do... He goes on hiking trips and leaves me here. I need to go out of town and see how they like it :)

Ooooh.. We need to do a retreat weekend! Some place where I can dry my mossy PNW bones out and clip the webbing between my toes

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I think my husband thinks I'm taking him for granted.. He works hard and my "job" is to keep the house and cook the meals.. Not saying he never cooks because he does sometimes when he has multiple days off in a row.. I think I just don't like cooking anymore. I eat so simply these days that I forget about pleasing others people's hunger with something complicated and tasty.

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Ooooh.. We need to do a retreat weekend! Some place where I can dry my mossy PNW bones out and clip the webbing between my toes

Hehehe... What???

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I was the primary cook in the house. I still cook once in a while' date=' but not nearly as much as I used to.. My wife said the other night "I'm hungry" I replied by telling her how the knobs on the stove magically make fire.. She wasn't impressed with that answer..[/quote']

LMAOOOOo !!!

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Hehehe... What???

LOL.. I think you have to be from the Pacific Northwest to get that.

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LOL.. I think you have to be from the Pacific Northwest to get that.

Ok, lol! for a minute I was busting my brain trying to figure it out >.<

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