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I hope this is not too much info for this forum. I just want to proclaim that I have finally mastered being on top during sex, and now it is my favorite option. I love being able to see him close and of course, being in control of the pace. This is the one position that eluded and frustrated me back when there was a lot more of me to love. It was awkward and embarrassing and always ended up with lots of apologizing on my part.

This surgery has not only giving me a new lease on life, but it has opened doors to a sizzling sex life!

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That's one thing I hope I'll be able to do once I loose my weight. Congrats though!

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I am right there with you.. I am never on top, and I feel bad because my husband always has to do the work.. so I can't wait for the day to be able to take control and feel confident in doing that..

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Now that IS an NSV to celebrate! Not too TMI for this crowd. :rolleyes:

Keep Pimpin that Sleeve!

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Sex has gotten way better, on my back, on top, on my side, standing sitting, in the spa.

ITs better!! He has lost 20 lbs so between us we have lost 80 lbs and its just amazing.!

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