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Sleeved May 15 and Regretting it



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First of all, I'm sorry your family is not being understanding and supportive, I was sleeved March 18th 2013, I too, had regrets. There were times when I said to myself "what have I done to myself" But please trust me when I say, it does get better! I felt alone and a stranger to my own family. My husband refused to take me out to eat because it was a waste of money. It took me and my family some time to adjust to the fact that the old me ( as far as eating) was gone.... Which made me sad too. But now after time has passed, we as a family and me as a person has adjusted and accepted my new tummy. We go out to eat on occasion, I just come home with a lot of leftover's.. It truly is a learning process, but more for me, it was a whole new mental process when it came to food! I will keep you in my prayers, and I know in time you will be in a better place. I still have times when I miss food and wish that I could eat more and enjoy food the way I used to. But those times are fewer and fewer as the months pass. I wish you nothing but success and happiness!!! Jesus keep

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Awww I really appreciate your words. Things are slightly better, but something is something. Things are definitely way different than I had ever thought they would be, but I am learning to adjust :)

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My doctor said that for the full liquid phase 2 diet you can take Soups or chili and put it in the blender or magic bullet and puree it down to a completely liquid Fluid consistency.

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I am the same...I've always gotten some form of gratification from watching cooking shows, during recipes on the internet and reading cookbooks.....

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My doctor said that for the full liquid phase 2 diet you can take Soups or chili and put it in the blender or magic bullet and puree it down to a completely liquid Fluid consistency.

That's what my wife did when I was in my liquid phase. It made the final few days tolerable and quick to pass.

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