When to have surgery?

[need2bthin! 235]

I need advice....my grandfather has become very ill. I am very close to my grandfather and help take care of him. My surgery was tentatively scheduled for late June. Should I go ahead with the surgery or postpone it? How long will my recovery be ? Thanks everyone #heavyheart

[serenity1959 67]

This is something you really will need to decide for yourself. Is his illness life-threatening? You will really need to be able to focus on yourself and your recovery after surgery.

[kulita 243]

I agree with serenity. This surgery requires you to be very focused on everything you put in your mouth. With that said, within 2-4 weeks after the surgery you should be able to still care for him.

[need2bthin! 235]

Thanks everyone! After speaking with my husband and family. I'm going to go ahead with my surgery...my family said what will be, will be, and I need to take care of myself and get healthy!!