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[JMarshall 352]

Diaries of a man W-H-O-R-E

So I have lost a huge amount of weight and I just started to get back into the dating scene and I have been more than successful. I had a relationship that lasted about 5 months and then that ended mutually. Since then I have been dating a lot. Right now im dating with no intention on moving forward with anybody, I guess I like the freedom. Right now I would say that I just want to have some fun. Right now I am dating 4 women at the same time and its getting harder everyday. I am honest with them all and they know that I am dating other women at the same time. Each person intrigues me in a different way. I know that at some point that this is not going to work and that they will start wanting more. Last week one of the girls wrote me a love poem. I truly care about them all but I know I am going to have to start releasing some of the felines back into the wild. Is there anybody out there that can give me some advise on what steps to take to let these girls down easily ? i know there are some guys on here that have had this same experience.

[aroundhky 1,174]

Playa! Just kidding. If you've been up front and honest with them without any "exclusive" agreements, you're not really a player the way I see it. But if one is writing love poems.....well......letting her down could get messy. Not sure there's an easy way out with the one that wrote the poem. Maybe that was her way of saying that she wants you and doesn't want to share you? If so, you probably need to make sure you're both on the same page and that she knows you're not interested in anything real serious. If your goal is to have fun, just need to find some woman that wants to do the same I guess.

[fattie 53]

What ever you do please practice safe sex. You dont really need 4 baby mommas. Lol

[Recycled 2,182]

Play it for all it's worth.....you earned it.

[JMarshall 352]

Meh. If they all know what's going on there isn't a HUGE problem with this except that I don't really think you'll find happiness this way. You mentioned that its getting harder and harder every day' date=' but you didn't really say why so I don't know if its that balancing this many women is taking up too much of your time, money, or emotional energy. I would imagine its probably all of the above. You said they all interested you in different ways but I find it difficult to believe that you really know these women as the whole human beings they are because all of them are only getting a fraction of your time.

If there is one of these women that you really perceive as a good woman, meaning, that she is the type of woman you could settle down with and be happy then I suggest you cut the rest of them loose and man up. If that isn't what you are looking for at all though then just make sure you are not leading them on. If you are not even open to the idea of something serious you need to make sure they all realize that TODAY and something tells me they don't know if you have some woman writing you poetry.[/quote']

At this point I realize that I'm going to have to make a decision. I like 1 more than the rest , so I guess that I'm going to have to go with my gut. 1 thing I don't like doing is wasting time, so I'm going to just let the other gals know how I really feel. I have been having fun but I guess It's time to move forward. Thanks for the post. I want female input because I'm sure that men and women have been in similar situations.

[*susan* 1,709]

Ladies, just a reminder, the Man Room is for men only.

Thanks.

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[Butterthebean 8,146]

Yes I would post here.. But woman are no longer allowed to post in the mans room, and visa versa!

What??? When did this start? And wouldn't it be appropriate for a male forum mod to be policing the man room rather than Susan? Just sayin....

Does this also mean that Christians can't post in the Atheist/Agnostics forum anymore? If so, thank the Godless heavens.

[Joe I 180]

Ladies, just a reminder, the Man Room is for men only.

Thanks.

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This is a stupid rule, and should be done away with!!!

[mikeross 216]

This is a stupid rule, and should be done away with!!!

+1...

This sub-forum is not very active to begin with. Restricting it to only male members will make it even less active and less informative... I think a woman's perspective is important in regards to some of these "male" questions and comments.

Please take no offense, but why is a woman moderating this forum if women are not allowed to post here... kinda hypocritical don't you think.

Based on the tread title I was 99% sure entering this thread that it was started by "fyre_storm"

[Recycled 2,182]

This is a stupid rule, and should be done away with!!!

Cmon guys, this is not choosing a life of celibacy. It's one specific room that keeps the responses to a male perspective on male related issues. If you want the woman's point of view, just start the thread in a different room. I for one say, Kuddos to the Admins.

[WillInAtlanta 24]

4 women?!? Kudos, but you must have some serious cash or a great job lol

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[fyre_storm 1,412]

+1...

This sub-forum is not very active to begin with. Restricting it to only male members will make it even less active and less informative... I think a woman's perspective is important in regards to some of these "male" questions and comments.

Please take no offense' date=' but why is a woman moderating this forum if women are not allowed to post here... kinda hypocritical don't you think.

Based on the tread title I was 99% sure entering this thread that it was started by "fyre_storm" <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

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What?! Lol. I am I just don't brag about it LOL.

[mitz 221]

My sexual appetite is high already and I have not had the sleeve surgery yet I'll find out Monday , I'm in big trouble if it increases after surgery down the road, will it stay the same or will it be more? Or just feel good about myself with the weight loss?

[Huntingnurse 510]

Last week one of the girls wrote me a love poem.

RUN!

Fast.

And far.

[mikeross 216]

So women are allowed to read all of the post in this forum but if they have something informative to add they are not allowed?