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I know I try to post very infrequently and only post things I think would of be of interest to other people besides me -- cuz I feel down-right

rejected when I get -0- replies to a post. I know -- it's a reflection of my poor self-esteem -- but it's the truth, and if I can't be honest here -- where can I be honest? I

think I also am prone to feeling badly because I have no outside friends. I have mentioned that I'm home-bound -- so I haven't had a girlfriend for 15 years now. My husband is my only friend.

I know most of you are waaaaay more secure than me!!

Happy posting!

WeeWers

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So sorry there have been times you haven't felt supported. I think sometimes it's a matter of timing and if somebody feels like they have something that will answer a question and / or help. Keep at it --- I'm confident you will get the support you need here and don't get bummed when a post from time to time doesn't get a response. It happens to all of us. Good luck on your journey!!!

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Keep posting. It happens from time to time. We are all here for each other though!

Hugs! :)

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To be honest with you and it might be my lack of knowledge, but I have a terrible time noticing posts if theyre more than several hours old. So, if I'm swamped at work or gone for the day I miss a gabillion and don't know it.

It's not because people aren't interested.. It's mostly due to the fact tht not everyone sees it.

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Hey since ive did my sleeve dont have many friends my best friend basically dumped me after new yrs guess she figured i couldnt eat or do as much but i dont im also on the verge of getting divorce its funny i talk to you guys because i feel close were all going through the same thing

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Actually I have had a reply to every post I have put up. I was wondering how others felt when they had no replies. Thanks for all the care you guys!

WeeWers

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Actually I have had a reply to every post I have put up. I was wondering how others felt when they had no replies. Thanks for all the care you guys!

WeeWers

Say what?

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Bad.... :(

and my first language is Spanish. ...maybe the people doesn't undedstand my posts very well

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Actually I have had a reply to every post I have put up. I was wondering how others felt when they had no replies. Thanks for all the care you guys!

WeeWers

Crack up!! :P

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