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I have my seminar tonight and I'm so excited... Or I was, but hubby really doesn't want me to have the surgery. I don't know what to do anymore I'm so torn.

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I'm sorry he's not supportive. Maybe if you talk to him about why he's against it, you can address his concerns. Is he going with you to the seminar? My husband attended with me and was able to get his questions answered and help me choose a surgeon. Maybe involving him in the process (if you aren't already) would help. Good luck to you!!!

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He is going with me. It's not that he isn't supportive I think it's more because he's scared. He's scared of the unknown and scared something will go wrong. I really hope tonight puts him at ease.

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My husband, in no way wanted me to have this surgery! But I asked him please just come to the consultation with the surgeon with me.

After we left the surgeons office he knew everything he needed to know (including my true weight) he was able to have all his questions answered and has been my biggest supporter since :)

I'm glad he's coming tonight and good luck to you!

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Well my husband had to work late, so he couldn't make it and he has to be at work at 4 am so by the time the seminar was over and I picked up my kids he was already asleep. He did text me during the seminar tho and ask how it was going... So at least he's trying to be supportive. I can't wait to talk to him about it. I'm so excited, but yet so scared at the same time to take this step.

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