Kalimomof3 613 Posted May 15, 2013 Or maybe she is a spoiledbrat like her profile name says. I still don't see why you have to be rude as it is not helping anything .... 1 KhadijahRose reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
******** 397 Posted May 15, 2013 Or maybe she is a spoiledbrat like her profile name says. It doesnt matter how spoiled you are (for the record I dont know the OP so I wont call her that) a dr wont operate on you unless you meet certain criteria, so your point doesn't seem valid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotANewbie 7 Posted May 15, 2013 The OP called herself ' SpoiledBratt' so I dont think I am being rude by calling her that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuNMooNStaRS816 423 Posted May 15, 2013 The OP called herself ' SpoiledBratt' so I dont think I am being rude by calling her that. AussieLady has been nothing but rude here... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kalimomof3 613 Posted May 15, 2013 The OP called herself ' SpoiledBratt' so I dont think I am being rude by calling her that. I was talking to Aussielady ...Even if the OP called herself one it is not as if Aussie was addressing her by merely stating her username she was actually calling her out as one. The general tone of all Aussie posts on this thread make her posts seem like personal attacks...Which IMO is totally unnecessary . 4 anniemay, Karmen081020, SuNMooNStaRS816 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolanz 1,484 Posted May 15, 2013 Wow! A lot of back and forth here! I'd like to know the background story too. Just out of curiosity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuNMooNStaRS816 423 Posted May 15, 2013 Wow! A lot of back and forth here! I'd like to know the background story too. Just out of curiosity. From reading her previous posts she was a revision patient. Lost some wgt with band for a year and I believe had complications which lead to revision. Then lost the remainder with her sleeve.....but all that is just from reading her previous post. Second hand info. The poor OP has not even chimed back in.....guess all back and forth ran her off. I do apologize if you (the OP) didn't feel supported. That should b our main goal here..... 2 Coookies and Nicolanz reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrokeMyHalo 107 Posted May 15, 2013 Or maybe she is a spoiledbrat like her profile name says. Do you study Bariatrics? Because you are in for quite the surprise when you find out the research they are doing to perform this on lower BMI's. 1 SuNMooNStaRS816 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
No game 14,437 Posted May 15, 2013 Aussie is going through a very rough time.. While it definitely doe not excuse her behavior.. It might explain her mindset at the moment. Aussielady, I'm very concerned about you and so are many others here. Please consider getting the help that is available to you. Laura 4 Fixerupper, anniemay, Ms.AntiBand and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuNMooNStaRS816 423 Posted May 15, 2013 Do you study Bariatrics? Because you are in for quite the surprise when you find out the research they are doing to perform this on lower BMI's. Can you imagine what the benefit would be to healthcare costs alone if they did this surgery earlier? Astronomical....I believe in the future there will be a move to do this sooner than later. But more than that. The benefit to diabetics who lose their limbs because their diabetes is so out of control or lose their sight. Or the patient with hypertension or cardiac disease. What if this surgery done sooner prevents that? Isn't that worth a chance to have this surgery. And whether ppl realize it or not. Low BMI patients can be just as sick as higher BMI patients. We all should of course do all the research and know all the possible complications....then make our own choice.....what is best for us....only we can know that....and shouldn't fear being called names. 3 Tx.Doll3, Fixerupper and Coookies reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dma2013 99 Posted May 15, 2013 I usually try not to get involved in the negative threads, typically I just thinks its a waste of time. That said comments about OP have really disturbed me. We have all likely been the victim of being judged at one point or another and we know how it feels. This person turns to this page for support and advice and you judge her because she only had to lose 33 pounds? Shame on you for judging others and shame on you for not using this site for the intended purpose. 3 Karmen081020, NikkiC and ProudGrammy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrokeMyHalo 107 Posted May 15, 2013 Can you imagine what the benefit would be to healthcare costs alone if they did this surgery earlier? Astronomical....I believe in the future there will be a move to do this sooner than later. But more than that. The benefit to diabetics who lose their limbs because their diabetes is so out of control or lose their sight. Or the patient with hypertension or cardiac disease. What if this surgery done sooner prevents that? Isn't that worth a chance to have this surgery. And whether ppl realize it or not. Low BMI patients can be just as sick as higher BMI patients. We all should of course do all the research and know all the possible complications....then make our own choice.....what is best for us....only we can know that....and shouldn't fear being called names. I do not have a problem with people wanting this and other WLS procedures without co-morbidities. I have worked in Bariatrics for years, this is the where it is headed. A responsible surgeon can and will decide who this is best for. I find it fascinating and exciting! Thanks for the positive response SunMoonStar 1 SuNMooNStaRS816 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthiernewme 81 Posted May 15, 2013 Aussie is going through a very rough time.. While it definitely doe not excuse her behavior.. It might explain her mindset at the moment. Aussielady, I'm very concerned about you and so are many others here. Please consider getting the help that is available to you. Laura I agree with Laura-ven. Aussielady, I pray that you receive the help you need. I sense that you have channeled your anger into another form of addiction. Please seek out the help you need to get better. 2 No game and Fixerupper reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolanz 1,484 Posted May 15, 2013 From reading her previous posts she was a revision patient. Lost some wgt with band for a year and I believe had complications which lead to revision. Then lost the remainder with her sleeve.....but all that is just from reading her previous post. Second hand info. The poor OP has not even chimed back in.....guess all back and forth ran her off. I do apologize if you (the OP) didn't feel supported. That should b our main goal here..... If that's the case, I'd do the same thing! Lord knows I'd gain the weight back no doubt! Congrats OP!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kacy100plus 4 Posted May 15, 2013 33 lbs.?? You had surgery and all you needed to lose was 33 lbs.?? I can just about lose that going to toilet. You obviously didn't qualify for insurance so you must really be a spoilt brat! Maybe you should have spent your money on a gym membership. That was kinda mean. No judgements here please. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites