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Hi all!!

I'm set to be Sleeved on June 21st. This may be TMI, but I'm kind of a sex addict. And my biggest thing is I like it a lil kinky and rough. My question is, how long after being sleeved is it safe to jump back into to sack???

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I was back at at after one week. I just went on all fours with a pillow under my belly to minimise risk.

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Our group asks for 30 days. We'll see.

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I was also told whenever I felt comfortable, which was at about one week out. We just made sure to be very careful.

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My surgeon's exact quote "I'm not operating down THERE' date=' so whenever you feel comfortable, have at it!".[/quote']

Lol!! Ok then!!

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I would say whenever you feel comfortable but not as rough as you usually are lol

Oookay... *bats eyes*

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Hi all!!

I'm set to be Sleeved on June 21st. This may be TMI' date=' but I'm kind of a sex addict. And my biggest thing is I like it a lil kinky and rough. My question is, how long after being sleeved is it safe to jump back into to sack???[/quote']

It could just be me but my sex drive has decreased tremendously

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I thought it was just me but since I had my sleeve sex is the furthest thing from my mind.

I have no desire for sex probably because you had to spend so much time working towards eating.

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Woow....

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Ok now I'm a little worried are you guys telling me that I won't want sex after !

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Ok now I'm a little worried are you guys telling me that I won't want sex after !

I think it's just a short term issue I'm sure. I had my surgery last Tuesday and just. Now feel like doing anything so honestly sex just isn't top of my priority list. Now when I feel more healed I think it will be a different story

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I ask because my boyfriend of three years will not think differently of me after I thin out but if I cut him off of sex that might be a different story lol

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