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I am stunned by the egos on here. I am a loyal person on this site. But the Egos on this site are overshadowing the whole helpful community. If people were to realize we ALL had the same EXACT surgery that it makes us equals. You are no better or no less than the poster before or after you. Where is the helpfulness? I'm so tired of reading these people who shake their fingers at people who decide to take a different road then themselves.( except in the cases where the person is obviously not following their docs advice and is drinking and eating stuff they should right after surgery) You had the surgery for the exact same reason I did. We are fat, what the hell happened to the jolliness. Someone should write in some side effects that aren't mentioned: although death may occur and leaks, you will experience bitterness, resentment, aggressive behavior, cattiness, bitchiery and what not. I know this is exactly what I'm complaining about which makes me hypercritical but at least I know it! I should be a moderator darn it! On a lighter side (puns intended) I love this surgery. And I love all of you just stop the hating!

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haha, Fat and Jolly....That makes me laugh! :D

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Lol you'd be the only one. I joke a lot but I don't understand why the hate. It's a plague!

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I think all those "side effects" were there pre op...so they aren't going anywhere post op..ha.

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I miss Oreos :( lol only the Halloween ones though.

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Hmmm ... Fat and jolly or happy and gay, well I will never be fat and jolly again and I tried happy and gay but it left a bad taste in my mouth!!! btw where we're all the moderators this morning when someone was digging up 3 year old threads and adding posts with links for computer hard drives? And the bitchiness? We are sick people protected by the anonymity if the interweb I don't think it's gonna stop!

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I know. I just wanted to vent on my venting forum. People can change! Darn it!

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Vent away. Just don't start bitching about the bitchiness!

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Vent away. Just don't start bitching about the bitchiness!

Lol will do

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Damn...now I want Oreos!! :-/

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I am stunned by the egos on here. I am a loyal person on this site. But the Egos on this site are overshadowing the whole helpful community. If people were to realize we ALL had the same EXACT surgery that it makes us equals. You are no better or no less than the poster before or after you. Where is the helpfulness? I'm so tired of reading these people who shake their fingers at people who decide to take a different road then themselves.( except in the cases where the person is obviously not following their docs advice and is drinking and eating stuff they should right after surgery) You had the surgery for the exact same reason I did. We are fat, what the hell happened to the jolliness. Someone should write in some side effects that aren't mentioned: although death may occur and leaks, you will experience bitterness, resentment, aggressive behavior, cattiness, bitchiery and what not. I know this is exactly what I'm complaining about which makes me hypercritical but at least I know it! I should be a moderator darn it! On a lighter side (puns intended) I love this surgery. And I love all of you just stop the hating!

normally I don't sign in I just read the post unless it is something that really hit home and this did,thank you so very much for stating the fact's God bless you and our sleeve family.

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Vent away. Just don't start bitching about the bitchiness!

I like fyrestorm's word--bitchery--much better : )

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