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Rebecca just keep your eye on the prize. The prize in this case, is a more vibrant and vivacious person that can accomplish anything her heart desires. I too turn to food but then that starts a cycle of feeling bad and eating more. Then at the other extreme I will workout 5 days a week for 2 hours straight sometimes. So I know I need to find a balance and so can you. Keep positive reinforcement around you like pictures of how you want to look. They could be pictures in magazines, your friends, family, or anyone that has the body and mentality that you are striving for. Keep your head up and you will be fine.

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Really glad you are doing well. That's a good loss, and it ain't easy is it! I am in heavy shedding mode at the moment so I feel your pain. After a while though you do slip into the groove and it gets easier, and when you see the results and you have to buy smaller clothes it's a great pick you up. xxx

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Thank you ladies sooooooo much' date=' for your insights and wisdom. I will I've been doing much better eating much healthier, I'm still down 39 pounds since February 27. I will be amazing, keep you all posted thank you.[/quote']

You already are amazing just as you already are a winner. Let him have her. You can and will do much better and you deserve nothing less.

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*HUGS* ... want us to track him down for you? ;) Go treat yourself to something self-deserving like new clothes, pedicure, movie ... Sorry you are going through this! Try to keep your chin above Water. It's not you that made him cheat. You deserve more, go and get it!

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