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I received my approval today for surgery next Monday 12/18. I went to the nutritionist, counselor and pre-op class and everything went well......but when the call came in today from the Doctor's office regarding my approval the wave of nervousness started because now it's real.

I am somewhat concerned about actually going through the surgery but I am mostly concerned about the lifestyle change and my relationship with food. I want this to happen and will follow the directions for post-op recovery but I remain worried about the long haul. I've read many posts on the site and how happy everyone is and I can't tell you how much I am looking forward to the future. Many of you have posted that you have gone through transformations after surgery with your relationship with food and am hoping this happens with me as well.

What actually happens after surgery that makes you change (besides the obvious band placement)?

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Welome to lapband talk...

Our happiness & success stories will be yours soon enough...We all started out a bit nervous...not sure what the future holds & how we will manage our new lifestyle but commitment and living each day at a time...saw us through and will see you through too.

Congratulations on your surgery date...keep us posted.

:) becky

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Mastino, I understand where you are coming from. I actually cried right before surgery as I think I was releasing my emotional tie to food. I have done well since then. Everything has changed for me after the band. I use to eat a lot of junk, fast food and big quantities. I now graze throughout the day usually with Protein foods. Its been tough getting all the protein down. I think you will be okay after you get some restriction. It may take a fill or 2 to reach a comfortable level. It is a wonderful feeling being in control now. Good luck.

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Congatulations! You are soon to be on your way ! This is a wonderful journey you are embarking on! Enjoy the process. We are all here to help you in any way we can. Good Luck and may I be one of the firsts to say Welcome to Bandland! Relax your going to do just fine.

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I enjoy food more now than ever. I eat slowly and chew my food. No more gulp it down to feed the monster. I now look for taste and not volume anymore. I can now push the plate away while it still has food on it. Wow what a great change.

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