Why be negative

[Kat78 24]

Yea.... I posted earlier about cheating twice and now in getting hounded saying why am I even getting the sleeve if Incant even do pre op diet .... Sorta upsetting I'm using this sorta as a diary.... Not for rude comments

I personally thought the 'attack' on you was very uncalled for. A few slips, it happens. You are making the right decision and I'm sure you know as well as the rest of us that our eating habits will change with the sleeve.

[Arts137 1,811]

Let's take care of each other...

[Kat78 24]

I'm a lover not a fighter (if I don't have to be :ph34r: )

[Vixynne 695]

Jessie, I don't know the situation, but I've found that when you are faced with dealing with negativity or toxic people, one of the best ways to find compassion for them is realize that at least you aren't forced to deal with them 24/7.

They have to live behind their own eyes; with no escape from themselves and their miserable attitudes. At least you get to walk away; they're stuck with themselves. Sad, huh?

[Jessiegurl2686 104]

The situation is I posted that i cheated on my pre op diet... Nothing wayyyy bad like fast food or anything but I had 2 lean meals instead of one and day... And had a bowl of Cereal and 3 diet cokes this weekend... It's be 2 weeks since I had one... And SOMEONE i don't even remember user name is now saying i jeopardized my surgrey and if I can't do my diet why am i getting the sleeve because I can't even stick to my diet . I use this forum as a diary not for people to talk down on me.! Also I'm not looking for people to tell me it was ok that i did that because I know it was wrong . I lost 3.8 lbs in first 4 days . So to shay to all the haters

[Kristen125 18]

A lot of us have a hard time sticking to the pre-op diet because we have struggled for years with our eating habits. If I could control myself through sheer will power all the time, I wouldn't need to have such a powerful toll as the gastric sleeve to help me succeed in the long term. We are all human. Don't let the comments of one or two get you down.