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I am totally on your side' date=' but don't stoop to his/her level with the insults. You are MUCH better than that. :D[/quote']

I really think its to late for that.. That was a direct insult and not something that should be tolerated here.

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And also read on a post that she had a band 3 years ago.... And still weighs over 210 lol . I haven't had any surgreys yet and weigh 210 so please tell ME who must be eating unhealthy! :) get on my level! Dont talk down on me ill put you on blast

As a matter of fact I think you owe an apology to this woman and to this whole forum...

I'm sorry but to insult someone about their weight? Perhaps the surgery is for you but this forum might not be.

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What I said was alittle uncalled for yes! Sorry... I made a post earlier and had some rude comments and just ignored it then I had prior sending me private messages saying not to worry about te new posts that's were going in talking crap about my post... Just upset me alittle bit how I was done with the convo and it elevated so quickly . I'm very sorry for my last comment!

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And also read on a post that she had a band 3 years ago.... And still weighs over 210 lol . I haven't had any surgreys yet and weigh 210 so please tell ME who must be eating unhealthy! <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> get on my level! Dont talk down on me ill put you on blast

WTG! Fat-shaming someone shows intelligence, class, and maturity. I am very impressed, only not at all. So not okay...

Wow. Just wow.

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What I said was alittle uncalled for yes! Sorry... I made a post earlier and had some rude comments and just ignored it then I had prior sending me private messages saying not to worry about te new posts that's were going in talking crap about my post... Just upset me alittle bit how I was done with the convo and it elevated so quickly . I'm very sorry for my last comment!

I was posting as you were apologizing. I'm glad you apologized.

In the words of my wise and wonderful dad: Don't be sorry, just don't do it anymore.

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Did y'all not see the comments on My page? Thats why this thread was created I had no idea about this thread until I had private messages telling me not to worry about what they were saying to me..... And she put her weight on a form and I repeated it and included my weigh which is the SAME!

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What I said was alittle uncalled for yes! Sorry... I made a post earlier and had some rude comments and just ignored it then I had prior sending me private messages saying not to worry about te new posts that's were going in talking crap about my post... Just upset me alittle bit how I was done with the convo and it elevated so quickly . I'm very sorry for my last comment!

I saw the post you speak of... Nothing out of line there.

Do I agree with the original post here? Not really

Or I should be more honest and say I don't really care one way or another..

But what you said crossed a lot of lines here and I do not think you should try to justify it that way.

And because she offered her weight does not make it fair game to make fun of.

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I'm not bashing ANYONE I'm in the same shoes an everyone here ! I'm sorry i let someone I don't even now get to me. Now I look like the rude one lol how the tables turn

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You surgeon can only givebyounthe tools to be a success. Yet I've read on here people still trying to cheat or do a easy way out

If your not prepared to change for good why waste the time or money

A surgeon gives rules to follow. People need to stop wondering about other surgeons and follow the your paying for

If you smoker you have no business gettingbthevsleeve. The doctor tells you his for a reason. If you can't stick to a two week pre op diet how do you expect to becacsuccess withbthevsleeve

I wish everyone great success. And a healthy journey. Remember nothing taste as good as thin feels

I'm gathering that you've "seen the light" and want the world to know. You've figured it out. You've got the Power! You can see clearly now, the rain is gone!

I get it.

Not everyone is in the same place you are on their journey/recovery. Try and remember that.

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Just to add my two cents.................okay a nickle

Everyone on this forum has a right to voice there opinion. Maybe in the OP's experience she knows what she is saying.............none of us knows what our future will hold when it comes to our weight loss and the sleeve, but going into the surgery prepared and following all the guidelines can only help us to be successful well into the future. I don't think that drinking, eating out, no exercise in the long run will keep our weight off. For most of us this is what brought us to weight loss surgery in the first place. We have all heard it before, healthy eating, exercise, no smoking, drinking in moderation too lose weight; and you know what, THEY all were right!!

I think the OP has her heart in the right place she just wants us ALL to be successful, I know that I do. Cheers

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Allright ! I'm done on this thread! I apologized . It this so high school! Sorry again!!!!

And isn't it ironic, don't ya think?

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Just to add my two cents.................okay a nickle

Everyone on this forum has a right to voice there opinion. Maybe in the OP's experience she knows what she is saying.............none of us knows what our future will hold when it comes to our weight loss and the sleeve, but going into the surgery prepared and following all the guidelines can only help us to be successful well into the future. I don't think that drinking, eating out, no exercise in the long run will keep our weight off. For most of us this is what brought us to weight loss surgery in the first place. We have all heard it before, healthy eating, exercise, no smoking, drinking in moderation too lose weight; and you know what, THEY all were right!!

I think the OP has her heart in the right place she just wants us ALL to be successful, I know that I do. Cheers

That is not the point I was making at all. Taking it out of context makes it sound like I endorse that as a path to success That is just nuts. What I WAS saying is that nobody can point a finger. My comments were directed at the OP and also to let others know you don't always have to be perfect and beat yourself up all of the time when you aren't

Anyone who wants to be a StepfordSleever, have at it. I wish I could walk such a tight line. I'm doing really well to be "good" 80% of the time.

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