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Does anyone know how long you are supposed to wait before having sex? I am one week post op and really don't have the energy ( or honestly the interest) but am curious how long everyone waited.

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I waited a little over a week. My dr gave me the green light whenever I felt up to it. No marathon sex or anything. It was gentle and surprisingly pain free.

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Okay, thanks! I just didn't know if there was any medical reason to wait...my husband asked me and I realized that I had no idea haha.

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Just no hanging from the chandeliers! Lol! :P

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I'm ashamed to say but I waited four days.

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I'm so glad that someone asked this because my hubby has been wondering the same thing...not that I'm really interested right now but of course he is lol :rolleyes:

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My doctor said no sex for 3 weeks, and we waited 2, i was to miserable and uncomfortable to do it before then. Like other have said, just be gentle, and you'll be just fine. No crazy Kama Sutra positions etc =)

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My surgeon says four weeks.

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My poor hubby! My Dr said 6 weeks.. And we waited 7. Lol

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Im "taking the 5th" on this one, haha

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A month but thats just me.

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Idk about u guys but I'm using this to get some much needed rest . I'm getting foot rubs n shoulder massages loving it . I say milk it for awhile shoot u deserve a break n spooning takes me back to the first time we met. He's always been good but it just feels good to be waited on a little plus when I'm ready it's going to be GOOD! Lol

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As long as it is comfortable and no hanging from the ceiling stunts

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