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I've had skinny folk say to my face I'm a week person that there are no fat people in Africa had kids laugh at my kids because I was fat... still am however im over 140lbs lighter than last year so to top it all off I've just found another skinny wee shite tell me I've got a addictive personality and I'm not a violent man however I think I must be addicted to meeting stupid

Over opinionated people that have no clue what they are messing with . Oh and this death wish has only just met me 5 mins ago .any advice on the best way to deal with annoying irritations non violent would be greatly received ....angry face ..peace out :-]

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Ugh... so frustrating when people can't mind their own business and are rude. One part of me says ignore the ignorant, but the other side says tell them that they shouldn't talk about things they don't understand. Just like you don't comment on their [fill in the blank].

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People are ignorant. They do not know what we feel or what we have gone thru. In the long run who cares what they think? If you pay my bills, then I will take what you have to say in consideration. If you do not pay my bills, have a nice day. I do not care what you think. We did this for us and for our families not for strangers.

Respectfully,

Joe

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There are fat people in Africa lol A large women signifies wealth and are favored for bearing children. Also the more fat wives a man has the higher in society he is perceived.

P.S you don't have to interact with idiots...unless you want to, bosses deal with bosses

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There are fat people in Africa lol A large women signifies wealth and are favored for bearing children. Also the more fat wives a man has the higher in society he is perceived.

P.S you don't have to interact with idiots...unless you want to' date=' bosses deal with bosses

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Yeh I know and that was a Doctor some stuff I just never forget however sometimes it really makes me angry that particular idiot I wasn't expecting to meet in my drs surgery needless to say I never go to that one any more how they manage to hold on to a job I will never know karma I hope will sort out the stupid people and if I'm lucky I will get to watch . :-) keepin it real good luck with your journey thanks for your comments

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Hang in there! Some people are just dumb and mean. But you know you are awesome and you rock and have lost weight, so keep your head up high! I don't think I've ever used the line, but I love "At least I can lose weight, you'll always be a jerk." or maybe a comment about "Yeah...I've still got some left to go, but the 140 I have lost has made quite a difference, thanks for noticing" that will make them feel dumb and like a total jerk for saying anything.

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I would just walk away from them! I would not give them the satisfaction of seeing me angry. There are alot of people in this world just like them who think they know everything. Violence does not solve anything only intelligence does. Keep your head high dont let mean people bring you down to their level. You did the right thing!

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Yes I'm fat and doing something about it. You're F***ing stupid. What are you doing about that?

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I laughed so hard when I read someone said a friend told them there are no fat people in Africa. Try Nigeria, have you ever seen that movie with Monique where all the gorgeous men are after her and her plump friend and dont give skinny ass the time of day? Exibit A!

Love that movie, called Phat Girlz. All African men love a woman with meat!

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People are ignorant. They do not know what we feel or what we have gone thru. In the long run who cares what they think? If you pay my bills, then I will take what you have to say in consideration. If you do not pay my bills, have a nice day. I do not care what you think. We did this for us and for our families not for strangers.

Respectfully,

Joe

Preach it BigJoe....well said!!

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You can't fix stupid.

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Don't let some arrogant nimrod rent space in your head, not worth the energy! Unless it is burning extra calories :) ! As someone else posted, you can't fix stupid!!!!

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